Being a Single Mom

[skuycreepe_daphn]

Hello Everyone... I just wanna share my experience as a single mom. Ya..When I was studying during my college days I fall inlove with this guy. I trust him a lot. He was so sweet to me and feels like I cannot live on this world without him. I was not able to control my self I get pregnant. He takes good care of me and I introduced him to my family. Of course, My Mom wasn't happy because they expect a lot me but there's nothing they can do the baby is already there and I am so blessed to have this baby. He was there until my labor day but after 2 days, he said he will go back to their place because he have to work. After that, 2 weeks I didn't heard any news from him. And then My sister called me after 1 month. She said she got some news from my boyfriend but it was not a good news....he was married already before I've known him...My world collapsed like I don't know what to do..I was sooo down..I regret all the things I've done..I asks forgiveness to the Lord for not listening to my parents...so I decided to leave him alone..now my child is already 2 years old..I'm so proud of my child. I will do anything for him..I am praying that one day God will give me a partner if ever He will who will accept my child and who is loyal to me...as of now..I still have this feeling"afraid" to trust other people..I don't if I should trust them or not..

 

[Whyllow]

Hello Everyone... I just wanna share my experience as a single mom. Ya..When I was studying during my college days I fall inlove with this guy. I trust him a lot. He was so sweet to me and feels like I cannot live on this world without him. I was not able to control my self I get pregnant. He takes good care of me and I introduced him to my family. Of course, My Mom wasn't happy because they expect a lot me but there's nothing they can do the baby is already there and I am so blessed to have this baby. He was there until my labor day but after 2 days, he said he will go back to their place because he have to work. After that, 2 weeks I didn't heard any news from him. And then My sister called me after 1 month. She said she got some news from my boyfriend but it was not a good news....he was married already before I've known him...My world collapsed like I don't know what to do..I was sooo down..I regret all the things I've done..I asks forgiveness to the Lord for not listening to my parents...so I decided to leave him alone..now my child is already 2 years old..I'm so proud of my child. I will do anything for him..I am praying that one day God will give me a partner if ever He will who will accept my child and who is loyal to me...as of now..I still have this feeling"afraid" to trust other people..I don't if I should trust them or not..

Welcome to the chat. I'm also a single mom with a 2 year old boy. My situation was a bit different: Here's the link http://christianchat.com/testimonies/24780-how-god-made-my-faith-stronger.html

But don't worry, there are a ton of single mom's on here to talk to you. I'm glad you shared your experience! Just focus on God and your son and you'll be fine. I'm learning that every day.

 

[skuycreepe_daphn]

thank you Whyllow...I am praying for that too...

 

[Jullianna]

Hello Everyone... I just wanna share my experience as a single mom. Ya..When I was studying during my college days I fall inlove with this guy. I trust him a lot. He was so sweet to me and feels like I cannot live on this world without him. I was not able to control my self I get pregnant. He takes good care of me and I introduced him to my family. Of course, My Mom wasn't happy because they expect a lot me but there's nothing they can do the baby is already there and I am so blessed to have this baby. He was there until my labor day but after 2 days, he said he will go back to their place because he have to work. After that, 2 weeks I didn't heard any news from him. And then My sister called me after 1 month. She said she got some news from my boyfriend but it was not a good news....he was married already before I've known him...My world collapsed like I don't know what to do..I was sooo down..I regret all the things I've done..I asks forgiveness to the Lord for not listening to my parents...so I decided to leave him alone..now my child is already 2 years old..I'm so proud of my child. I will do anything for him..I am praying that one day God will give me a partner if ever He will who will accept my child and who is loyal to me...as of now..I still have this feeling"afraid" to trust other people..I don't if I should trust them or not..

People will let us down, but God never will. Thank you for raising your child in a godly way. I pray that God will send the right person to you.

 

[buckeyegirl700]

I am a single mother and I am not going to lie and say it is easy because it is far from easy. My child's father is not a horrible person but he has made some mistakes that keep him from being around his child. He is addicted to drugs and is not fit at this time to be in her life. It is hard emotionally and financially. Sometimes I don't have enough money to buy things that she needs and my family has to step in. I also get lonely a lot and wonder if I ever will find a Christian man that would want to get involved with us. I am a College student and it is really hard to juggle everything that needs to be done. I have backslid and recently came back to cc for support. I am grateful for my child and love her dearly. Please keep us in your prayers.

 

[princessbella]

first of all id really like to say having two friends who are single parents through divorce and been bringing them up virtually on their own i really admire your strength and courage, to do what you need to do...Once of my friends remaried a few years ago they guy took them all on and adopted her youngest daughter and they now have had a new child ...So praying for all of the single parents on here that God will provide and continue to provide

 

[Hommer]

Well you can take comfort in knowing that I was raised by a single mother...........and look at how great I turned out!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[skuycreepe_daphn]

thanks guys...ya i admit it it is not easy to raise the child but I am happy to be with my son. I am blessed to have him in my life.

 

[Jullianna]

He is blessed to have you for a mom too.

 

[NMsmile]

I am a single mom with a 21 year old son. He was 4 when I became a solo parent. It's kind of hard to think of myself as a mature woman of God but I am now. I want to say that if any one of you want to message me I probably have a pretty good idea of what you are going through. The thing I'd like to say is that God is our Comforter and Provider. He is our Rock and our Shelter. He knows how difficult and how lonely it is and he is there with us every step, spanking, late morning, crying fit and odd look along the way. Don't be afraid because he is there.

I have a few scriptures I review and memorize but here are 2 I just love. Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you plans to give you hope and a future. (Isn't that wonderful!?) The other scripture I love is Psm 56.5 When I am afraid I will trust in you.

I want to encourage you and to say that every late night, diaper change, doctor appointment, lonely moment we have the Creator of the Universe with us! It's humbling to know that he cares that much!