Betrayal

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Jullianna said:
Even if Potiphar's (not the king) wife had been a single woman, she was not Joseph's wife to lie with, was she? ;) I think he still would have left. :)

Let's just be honest here, but tactful. We older folks know full well that when an experienced lady invites a young man into her private quarters there is an implied question. Usually of more than a kiss. I think it just took a younger man a few minutes to figure that out.
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I am willing to bet that he will be trying to patch things up with her within the next few weeks.
 
Jullianna said:
Let's just be honest here, but tactful. We older folks know full well that when an experienced lady invites a young man into her private quarters there is an implied question.
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Hey, give some members of my generation credit...okay one particular member... :P
 
I think it would be good for them to at least be friends and get past the misunderstanding. No reason for things to be ugly. :) I think this is simply an example of the importance of setting boundaries and seeking godly wisdom in our relationships so we don't find ourselves in the same place. It leads to pain for one or both.
 
Chicu, please hear my heart in my words. Please do not see them as condemnation. Please see them as coming from a woman not much younger than you who understands what it is like to have known intimacy and suddenly have it removed. It can be a very lonely feeling indeed and it can lead you to do things you regret. God CAN help you overcome. We live and learn, right? J I do hope that you and the young man can make peace with one another and that God will heal your heart.
 
Ritter said:
Hey, give some members of my generation credit...okay one particular member... :P
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It was by no means intended to be a slam to your age group. :) Innocent-mindedness is a BLESSING that one should cling to for as long as possible. <3

At some point, I would like to think the fact that this young man made a decision that prevented a VERY regrettable situation from occurring will be appreciated. :)
 
Jullianna said:
Even if Potiphar's (not the king) wife had been a single woman, she was not Joseph's wife to lie with, was she? ;) I think he still would have left. :)

Let's just be honest here, but tactful. We older folks know full well that when an experienced lady invites a young man into her private quarters there is an implied question. Usually of more than a kiss. I think it just took a younger man a few minutes to figure that out.
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Isn't there an implied something or other in EVERYTHING you women do!?!
 
chich said:
I am not trying to blame anyone..I just think he is an adult and was consenting in participating in the kiss. Yes, I agree I rushed into a physical connection but i also believe if he didnt want to kiss me he could have stopped as soon as it started. Whats a simple kiss anyway...don't we see this on TV multiple times when a guy/ girl has a crush on a girl/guy? Its just a show of affection...I don't think I did anything wrong.
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Oh, you see it on TV so it must be an acceptable practice.

Ok, so you you made out with someone you hardly know, he got caught up in the moment. Once he got away he realized his mistake and has moved on. Perhaps you should move on too. Bottom line, if you weren't taking men you hardly know to your room to be physical it wouldn't have happened at all.
 
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