The Bible says, 'a hope deferred maketh the heart sad.' Father God do you hear that? You promised to give us the desires of our hearts if we but seek you first, and some of us have been waiting much longer than we expected.
Queen, I hear you. Jesus told His disciples that some men are made eunuchs for the kingdom of God. I'm sure this wasn't what they wanted to hear.
Until that time comes if and when you receive your husband, I would encourage you to ask to be filled with The Holy Spirit. Spend a good few hours just being still and knowing that Jesus loves you, and see if there's anything He wants to show you about your heart.
And, as a welcome side effect, a woman who is overflowing with The Holy Spirit is VERY attractive to a guy who's a child of God