Chat Flirting

  • Thread starter Thread starter Kels
  • Start date Start date
  • Christian Chat is a moderated online Christian community allowing Christians around the world to fellowship with each other in real time chat via webcam, voice, and text, with the Christian Chat app. You can also start or participate in a Bible-based discussion here in the Christian Chat Forums, where members can also share with each other their own videos, pictures, or favorite Christian music.

    If you are a Christian and need encouragement and fellowship, we're here for you! If you are not a Christian but interested in knowing more about Jesus our Lord, you're also welcome! Want to know what the Bible says, and how you can apply it to your life? Join us!

    To make new Christian friends now around the world, click here to join Christian Chat.

How often are you hit on while chatting?

  • Never

    Votes: 4 26.7%

  • Sometimes

    Votes: 3 20.0%

  • Most times

    Votes: 4 26.7%

  • Always

    Votes: 4 26.7%
  • Total voters
    15
  • Poll closed .
Just my opinion, but I really don't think most christian single ladies mind a little flirting, as long as it's not crude and the guy is mindful of whether or not the lady is engaged in conversation already. It's just good manners. :) If you want to talk with her, ask a couple of fun or interesting questions in the main chat first just to break the ice.
 
LightningClap0002 said:
Uh, or...

Guy: "FAT PENGUIN!"
Girl: "Uh, did you just call me fat? Jerk! *slap*"
Click to expand...

Yeah.... in order to avoid any misconceptions how about:

Guy: "Hey [name], how much does a polar bear weigh"?
Girl: "Ummm.... I don't know?"
Guy: "Enough to break the ice!" ;)
 
There's flirting & then there's flirting. It's a thin line between the two & easily crossed.
Also have to be aware of different races, customs, faiths, & simple feelings.
I flirt everyday with my Boss @ work but then we've been together, on & off, for some 20 years.

I like to think everything I say on here may be jokey but never flirtatious as I haven't come to know anyone in the short time I've been contributing.

My maxim? - Treat every female I meet as a lady until I find otherwise.

But how many fellahs here have been flirted with by the ladies?!
 
alienx7587 said:
Yeah.... in order to avoid any misconceptions how about:

Guy: "Hey [name], how much does a polar bear weigh"?
Girl: "Ummm.... I don't know?"
Guy: "Enough to break the ice!" ;)
Click to expand...

OOOR

Guy: sooo how much do you weigh?
Girl: ..............
 
Flirts come all the time, but no one has ever asked me for money... I think I just look poor. (which I am, actually...)
 
delive said:
Flirts come all the time, but no one has ever asked me for money... I think I just look poor. (which I am, actually...)
Click to expand...

You don't look poor at all. I think its because most men would feel ashamed to ask such a beautiful young lady for some money.
 
I would not say I "hit on" any of the young women while I am in the chat. I like to befriend and get to know a little about
my sisters in a individual transparent way. All women have unique qualities that make them special. So every time I befriend
and get to make small take and yes even flirt with them a little, I get to see the uniqueness of said young woman. In reality, women
are God's gift to men :D So if getting to know women that I find attractive, for no other reason than conversation, is considered flirting than I am
guilty :)

p.s. by young women I mean ladies that are over 18.
 
I dont always discourage flirting because some guys may use that to break the ice bc of nerves. And since im looking for my Boaz (read Ruth in the Bible) i wouldnt want to run them away, However i am new here so it doesnt happen often at all.
 
Jullianna said:
Just my opinion, but I really don't think most christian single ladies mind a little flirting, as long as it's not crude and the guy is mindful of whether or not the lady is engaged in conversation already. It's just good manners. :) If you want to talk with her, ask a couple of fun or interesting questions in the main chat first just to break the ice.
Click to expand...

Hmmmmmmmm I'd have to agree with Jullianna. Yep.
 
Kels said:
How many females have been approached flirtatiously either through a forum, chat room, or profile messaging? I am new to this site and, honestly, I check out people's profile pages(who doesn't?) purely out of curiosity. But I've noticed in the chat rooms the vast majority of females have left some type of message on their private chat boards saying something to the extent of 1) In a relationship 2)Don't flirt with me 3)Not looking for a mate, etc. Is this like a proactive thing? Or are a lot of female users getting hit on to the extent that this has to be done? I would really like to hear the experiences of female users and how anyone feels about this.
Click to expand...

I know exactly what you mean. I'm pretty curious when it comes to checking out people's profiles too, but like you said, who isn't? :) As for the chatting, hear is my experience with that:

I don't really message people I haven't already talked to in the chat before, unless I have something constructive (or occasionally witty) to say. I've had a wide range of people randomly PM me in chat. From a dude in inland Africa asking for money, to a 20-something European girl who was (in my opinion) very inappropriate (EVIL! :eek:). I was able to kindly deny the guy money I don't have, and fend off the girl in a non-offensive manner. Then of course, there are people who are just plain rude and think opening a conversation with a rude statement or question will get an authentic response. :p

Anyway, MOST of the woman (I say woman, because 90% of the time it is a woman that PM's me :confused:) behave and simply want to engage in normal God-honoring conversation- which is appreciated- because I enjoy talking with people on here. :)

So yeah, that's my experience thus far.
 
Last edited:
Really??? Do women normally initiate PMs with guys? I VERY rarely do, unless it's someone I know pretty well. Not that there's anything wrong with it, I'm just old fashioned I guess. :) This just kinda surprised me a little bit.
 
Jullianna said:
Really??? Do women normally initiate PMs with guys? I VERY rarely do, unless it's someone I know pretty well. Not that there's anything wrong with it, I'm just old fashioned I guess. :) This just kinda surprised me a little bit.
Click to expand...
Yes, they certainly do at times. More often than not, for me, it's a foreign woman looking for an American man.
I do get PMs from women I know sometimes too, but that's different I'd say...since it's already a friend.
I don't mind getting PMs, I just don't always see or respond to them if I'm already busy, etc...nor do I typically accept them from married, separated, or attached women.
 
Last edited:
Jullianna said:
Really??? Do women normally initiate PMs with guys? I VERY rarely do, unless it's someone I know pretty well. Not that there's anything wrong with it, I'm just old fashioned I guess. :) This just kinda surprised me a little bit.
Click to expand...

I'd say a good half my female friends i have i made through them PMing me first. I get PMed me females on a fairly regular basis. So many women make such a huge issue out of being PMed by men, and think that the only reason a guy would PM this is to hit on them, so it's too much trouble for me to initiate.
Sometimes i initiate chat in main, but i generally don't prefer to talk in main. So it can be slow going for me o make new friends because of all this.
 
I PMed a lot when I first came here, but it quickly led to some very uncomfortable situations and bad behaviors, not only on their part, but mine as well, so I don't really care for it much now unless it's someone I know pretty well. Most of the time I just listen to what other people are talking about. But, when I do chat, I find that I get into far less trouble if I chat in main as much as possible. :D
 
My PM message says they have 10 seconds to impress me.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Top Bottom
Back