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Will it come in the form of 'saving' your child? it seems logical given a few assumptions.
Andrea Yates - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Will it come in the form of 'saving' your child? it seems logical given a few assumptions.
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A lot of things affect the way we think of our children. First of all there are moments in every relationship that we dislike, love and sometimes hate people. With children a lot of things impact us... stress, how much sleep you have received...other relationships... where we are in our walk with Christ. I remember I had a boss tell me once that he didn't like his children until they could talk and were potty trained. Just be patient with yourself... I would only be worried if those feelings of hate are with you all the time. If they are... call a friend... your pastor... your spouse... another family member. Having children is sorta like serving Christ ... you are a slave ... you are not your own... Best wishes. Just remember kids get more and more fun!
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Most certainly, but what normal, healthy, mature, loving, partly unselfish mother or father hates their child? Only one who has gone way off track in life.
So, be careful get control of your thoughts, because in God's eyes they are important also, and if you abuse them because you feel you hate them, you will be judged just as well, and your child will not truly love you or respect you, or honor you, and may end up with a bunch of problems, that you caused because you hated them, and prevented them from being okay, because they had to live with you, because the rest of the world doesn't want to invest their love as christians or do anything, and the parent doesn't want to let go, because this domineering attitude, "THIS IS MINE" which is also a type of abuse.
So, you're not crazy, although if you continue to hate your child, you will go crazy, and others in this world when your child seeks help will know your're screwed up, wrong, and crazy. So, do you want to make your flesh and blood suffer tha way, and be evil for the rest of your life, or do you want to get a new heart and love them? No matter the cost. Do what you have to do, to get this right!
I speak from a dysfunctional family myself and having christians **** it up more because they truly want to heal and think they know how to fix but then only judge and cause more oppression, like a screwed up, unchristlike parent is any better or more important than the child who is younger and has more of his life ahead of him or her.
That is partly why my life has so many problems, because ignorant famiies and parents who onlly have children so they can use them as their toy or pawn and expect the child to be strong, are wrong. They are failures, and God gives grace, but then there will come a time when your child will leave, turn on you, and probably have learned how not to live life because of you.
Is that what you want created in this world?
You're hurting another life, possibly, with a hateful attitude, your child. Sure a momentary thought about I hate the raging driver in front of me, or the smoker at the table next me is okay, it goes away, and causes no harm, but your hating your child, then fix it, or it's time to grow up and depar tways, you be the grown woman or man and get a life, and they do also.
Just some advice, I am not God.
Thank you for listening, even if I don't come across all correctly, I mean well, and want your life, this situation to work out, even if 100 people would describe it to me.
But you have to do the work.
God Bless with a good and sound mind.
So, be careful get control of your thoughts, because in God's eyes they are important also, and if you abuse them because you feel you hate them, you will be judged just as well, and your child will not truly love you or respect you, or honor you, and may end up with a bunch of problems, that you caused because you hated them, and prevented them from being okay, because they had to live with you, because the rest of the world doesn't want to invest their love as christians or do anything, and the parent doesn't want to let go, because this domineering attitude, "THIS IS MINE" which is also a type of abuse.
So, you're not crazy, although if you continue to hate your child, you will go crazy, and others in this world when your child seeks help will know your're screwed up, wrong, and crazy. So, do you want to make your flesh and blood suffer tha way, and be evil for the rest of your life, or do you want to get a new heart and love them? No matter the cost. Do what you have to do, to get this right!
I speak from a dysfunctional family myself and having christians **** it up more because they truly want to heal and think they know how to fix but then only judge and cause more oppression, like a screwed up, unchristlike parent is any better or more important than the child who is younger and has more of his life ahead of him or her.
That is partly why my life has so many problems, because ignorant famiies and parents who onlly have children so they can use them as their toy or pawn and expect the child to be strong, are wrong. They are failures, and God gives grace, but then there will come a time when your child will leave, turn on you, and probably have learned how not to live life because of you.
Is that what you want created in this world?
You're hurting another life, possibly, with a hateful attitude, your child. Sure a momentary thought about I hate the raging driver in front of me, or the smoker at the table next me is okay, it goes away, and causes no harm, but your hating your child, then fix it, or it's time to grow up and depar tways, you be the grown woman or man and get a life, and they do also.
Just some advice, I am not God.
Thank you for listening, even if I don't come across all correctly, I mean well, and want your life, this situation to work out, even if 100 people would describe it to me.
But you have to do the work.
God Bless with a good and sound mind.