Christian folks; how do you handle rejection ?
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well, to begin with, you're on the right path. being a Christian is the best position to be in to handle anything not proper. always SEE THRU A PROBLEM thru faith & trust in the Lord. we all know what rejection is & some have had much worse times than anyone else including me. (1st Peter 4;19) i must have been some sort of a misfit in society with all the rejection i received!!!! hahaha. but truly. let God do the work, most of it anyway. when rejected, simply & quickly say, "well God, she's not the right one or you would have let me know! incorporate comedy into rejection, "i can see, she's not for me, so it must be"!!!!! by course, ask around in your church, family, friends, maybe a Christian dating site. i met my spouse thru caring for my next door neighbor. i did all my neighbors mowing &snow work. after her husband died i noticed she was getting lonely. i told her, "let's start a games group with people from church". she said, 'fine'. met my future spouse there.. she knew me from playing the drums in a church band because we met on christian mingles but not face to face. she told me she saw me play at the church & we connected from there. she asked me out to dinner & a Christian movie. next week, she asked me out to dinner & a Christian play. a year later, we were married!!!!!!!
In Tennesse, you get 30 days in the hoosegow if you say 'no' to a lady asking you out on a date. 
I like meeting new people anyway, there would have to be some pretty bad mojo for me to say no.
I like meeting new people anyway, there would have to be some pretty bad mojo for me to say no.
Ive never heard of it
If you ask someone out in Auckland you really need to get the timing right to allow for traffic. Not going or showing up because you were stuck in it and couldnt find parking can be a legitimate reason to say no as is perhaps petrol vouchers.
it if you ask someone out who lives right next door you may save money and time. Just dont go TOO far on your dates.
Though I do know someone who lived on the other side of town who went with one of my flatmates and they just met up in the middle for the most part, though it would take the guy two hours to get there and back just to see the gal. Eventually they grew tired of this and thought it was more economical to live in the same house then they could see each other everyday, in their pyjamas.
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Haven't heard of hoosegow?!
I know you're an advid reader, you might have caught that term in an American Western. Guess you'll have to cotton up to that in a dictionary.
I know you're an advid reader, you might have caught that term in an American Western. Guess you'll have to cotton up to that in a dictionary.
Not really in my genres of books though they seem to be popular with oldies in the public library who fancy themselves as cowboys lol
Farming folk here are called 'cow cockies' and wear gumboots to stop them from sinking in the mud. Its wet.
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