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I read, you asked for a male opinion, perspective, but I would like to respond to your issue if I may?
From a female perspective....
When we are at a maturity level to handle sexual activities, and/or we do the right thing, and wait until marriage, or a true commitment, and all things in order, even before marriage, then I think it is okay for sex to be involved.
God truly does only bless certain choices, and at times it depends on the type of people and the character of those you are around.
I have known some men, guys to suffer because there bodies are responding in a physical way, with arousal, even if they are not watching porn, or a beautiful woman, sometimes this is nature's way. So, what do they do, suffer? No. Your suggestion could be an answer.
Also, sex takes energy, physical, emotional, spiritual, and a female does always have the energy or desire to do so, so what is man to do, rape her, force her, manipulate her feelings so she makes a decision in her favor, telling her she is weird for not wanting to be sex freak, nympho. No, well some men do, and they are wrong, and bring alot of hurt on this earth.
I know this hurt, and it may never be healed. I am afraid of most men, because of their forecful attitudes and inability to understand the more gentle nature of a true woman.
Hope this educates you and that you have an open mind, even if you do not agree, at least you know there are thousands if not millions in this world who do not agree, or have different lifestyles.
God Bless.
Sex is not the most important thing in life, and unless you truly want to enter into that decision, no other should make you suffer for respecting the humanity of our bodies. True?
From a female perspective....
When we are at a maturity level to handle sexual activities, and/or we do the right thing, and wait until marriage, or a true commitment, and all things in order, even before marriage, then I think it is okay for sex to be involved.
God truly does only bless certain choices, and at times it depends on the type of people and the character of those you are around.
I have known some men, guys to suffer because there bodies are responding in a physical way, with arousal, even if they are not watching porn, or a beautiful woman, sometimes this is nature's way. So, what do they do, suffer? No. Your suggestion could be an answer.
Also, sex takes energy, physical, emotional, spiritual, and a female does always have the energy or desire to do so, so what is man to do, rape her, force her, manipulate her feelings so she makes a decision in her favor, telling her she is weird for not wanting to be sex freak, nympho. No, well some men do, and they are wrong, and bring alot of hurt on this earth.
I know this hurt, and it may never be healed. I am afraid of most men, because of their forecful attitudes and inability to understand the more gentle nature of a true woman.
Hope this educates you and that you have an open mind, even if you do not agree, at least you know there are thousands if not millions in this world who do not agree, or have different lifestyles.
God Bless.
Sex is not the most important thing in life, and unless you truly want to enter into that decision, no other should make you suffer for respecting the humanity of our bodies. True?