Cohabitation

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John 12:47-48 ESV / 6 helpful votes


If anyone hears my words and does not keep them, I do not judge him; for I did not come to judge the world but to save the world. The one who rejects me and does not receive my words has a judge; the word that I have spoken will judge him on the last day.

Ok, I'm sick of hearing all of you condemn me for not being married and then telling me how honestly you DONT CARE afterwards. It's a contradiction in itself, unless one of you want to make me financially stable overnight, Quite! I've heard enough, disgusting how some of you act but so be it, I know what Gods done for me, and need not one of you as I didn't have you when I got saved.

So keep spouting off your condemnations instead of help and we will see what God thinks of it.
where's your sympathy, humility, love, and care,

Matthew 18:35 - So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.

By the way, King David...had eight wives,
Spouse: Maacah, Avital, Abigail, Eglah, Ahinoam, Michal, Haggith, Bathsheba

Stop judging your brother, if you have something to say about it, hopefully it's some words of HELP, and not condemnation.

God bless

It is reproving not judging but there is a judging that is allowed it is judgement to righteousness as written in chapter 1 isaiah and chapter 58 and many more ,my fellow no one is condeming but the word lets you know your condition we only desire your well being
 
It is reproving not judging but there is a judging that is allowed it is judgement to righteousness as written in chapter 1 isaiah and chapter 58 and many more ,my fellow no one is condeming but the word lets you know your condition we only desire your well being
You might want to read back over the thread.

I know what I need to do, as stated before, would you like to buy the jewelry I want to get my wife to be? Are you paying for reception and so forth, how about first, do you have a job for me, if not I don't want to hear about the righteousness in your heart to judge, if you can not first help.

thanks anyway
 
So sad. And definetly not christian.
In the last days the enemy would attack the church and if possible, rip off even the chosen ones.

I've seen, in general, the churchs are trying to maintain the maximum number of "believers", by letting followers do whatever they want to do. That's sad.
 
you want to be right with God just go through the courts .even though its not what you wanted but at least you will be feeling better with God at least be in good standing with God it is your choice but be well no one is forcing you but you put your business out there i will withdraw if you please but im giving you brotherly advice that is benificial the choice is yours how to proceed , i give you good advice to better yourself that is truly benificial , I myself truly wish to give the best advice I can for I am loving you as myself as i pour the wisdom accumulated during my years sorry if i sounded off but I only wish the best .
You might want to read back over the thread .

I know what I need to do, as stated before, would you like to buy the jewelry I want to get my wife to be? Are you paying for reception and so forth, how about first, do you have a job for me, if not I don't want to hear about the righteousness in your heart to judge, if you can not first help.

thanks anyway
 
you want to be right with God just go through the courts .even though its not what you wanted but at least you will be feeling better with God at least be in good standing with God it is your choice but be well no one is forcing you but you put your business out there i will withdraw if you please but im giving you brotherly advice that is benificial the choice is yours how to proceed , i give you good advice to better yourself that is truly benificial , I myself truly wish to give the best advice I can for I am loving you as myself as i pour the wisdom accumulated during my years sorry if i sounded off but I only wish the best .

I would, she doesn't want to until I have a job and am stable,
 
I would, she doesn't want to until I have a job and am stable,

I will keep you in my prayers brother , i believe God will make a way ,i myself got married through the courts and now we are planning a wedding for next year to give Her the wedding she allways wanted ,we are doing a jewish Christian theme as I am jewish by descen
 
The word is the word. I wont debate it either. Its the truth. God bless you brother. Every time we put our physical desires before the truth of God we are walking outside the will of God.

You are correct, The word is the word. We are not to add or take away anything that is written in the scriptures. Therefore! There is no debate. We as Christians are to live in the Spirit, and not in the flesh. Unfortunately!...We all drop the ball at times.

Living in the Spirit should give us a heart of having Mercy,forgiveness, and Compassion for those who may not know Gods will for them.
Not everyone knows the truth. Maybe they had not read it yet. Maybe the Holy Spirit had not convicted there heart yet.
Maybe the enemy has blinded there heart or mind for the moment. Only Jesus knows our hearts and minds.

Was it Jesus who said!...Forgive them father, For they know not what they do?
Does this not sound as if in some cases. Some may be in sin, and not know it? This is why would should keep a tender heart towards others, unless confronted with pure evil.
 
I forgive you, you know no better

Brainfreeze!..
Just so you know. Not all of us judge you. We all fall short of the Glory of God one way or another.
Its a walk with the Lord. Jesus will teach us and convicts us as we go.
This helps us at getting better at doing his will as he Prompts us with the Holy Spirit as we walk in the word.
 
It is reproving not judging but there is a judging that is allowed it is judgement to righteousness as written in chapter 1 isaiah and chapter 58 and many more ,my fellow no one is condeming but the word lets you know your condition we only desire your well being

It's your job to judge those who claim be Christian but do not live according to Christ's teaching. Don't be deceived by someone quoting that Jesus didn't come into the world to judge, but to save the world. Even Satan can quote scripture. Jesus didn't come into the world to judge, but to save. But, the issue here isn't the purpose of his visitation (why he came into the world), or whether someone is really saved or not. The issue here is how Christians should respond to Christians who sin. And, that is to judge them and deal with them as appropriate.
 
Im sorry the penalty for sin is death.. no where in the bible does it state a slap on the wrist. God says depart from me you worker of iniquity I never knew you. Many will say lord lord. .but will be cast into hell. We are to turn from sin.. not blur the lines and make excuses for it.

Jesus and the Samarian woman at the well. She said that I have no husband. Jesus said! That is correct. The man you live with now is not your husband. You have had five husbands. Jesus did not tell her to go. and sin no more. Why Not?
Could it be that she had a good heart? She was eager to hear of Jesus teachings?

But Lord I cast out demons in your name. Jesus said that he never knew him. why? There was no relationship with Jesus.
The man was doing this with sorcery. A trick with Satan to gain others interest in him.

Does not the bible say! Do not judge or you will be judged? Would not this mean that you are no longer saved by grace?
You will now be judged by the law.

Why are we not to judge?
#1 reason is that you are playing God. For it is only Gods place to judge.
Jesus said, Do not have any other Gods before me. Judging is playing God. YIKES!

#2 Reason! Only Jesus knows our hearts. Do you know others heart?
I did not say that the scriptures spoke of a slap on the wrist. I was ready to throw myself at the mercy of Jesus.
I spoke with Jesus of how my mindset and heart was often. For Jesus knows my heart very well.
Nothing I said ever twisted, turned or removed from what the scriptures say.

We are all sinners. We can all use the scriptures against each other if we wish. If there is any judging to be done. That should be judging ones own heart and motivations before Jesus.
 
So many people who have asked Jesus Christ to be Lord or Saviour in faith that they will get to know Him and why He died for them and that they will eventually understand and know who He is, haven't read the Holy Bible or little.
That is the problem.
Once they read it for themselves over and over again as much as needed to find God for themselves, they will then have the answers. They will also know that fornication is sin and that there are blessings for obeying God and curses for disobeying God and that it is good to obey God. He is the best Father. It is only for our good that we have boundaries.
Ignorance is not bliss.