Your answer is not here. Your answer is with God in prayers, fasting, and supplications. I don't know the answer if there is any hope left for your relationship, but what I do know is that God is Almighty, and He can do all things, in His time and will. Regardless of the outcome, lets start with the basics. Your husband doesn't want to hear it. What other options do you have left? Have you tried and tried, and yet he still ignores? The option is clear, try again. But if he ignores again, you walk with God. There's seem to be an issue of the fear of God in his life. Regardless of how he stand with God and what comes out his mouth, and how he say he does or not. Lets forget all of that, and you walk with God. You show the house what it means to walk with the Saviour. "Take care of His business, and He'll take care of yours." All good things come to those who love God. Remember, your job as of now, is not to get frustrated at this moment with your husband, but to rather walk with God in the situation and serve Him at all times. Let God break down his wall of self righteousness, or selfishness, or whatever wall he has up against you. Let God break it down. The problem with this solution is that, it requires you to have faith in God, that you will do this. To depend on Him for the outcome. Too many times I've seen Christian relationship, end up like a heathen relationship because they refuse to have the fear of God in their lives. Don't be that, let God into the relationship. Let God handle this, walk with Him.
Lets' define what walk means: "He who does not pick up his cross, cannot be my disiciple." "He who does not give up his life, cannot be my disciple" Walking with God means, to give up your own life, to serve Him at what He has called you to do. Don't worry, "You don't know what God wants you to do." It's okay, start here, find a local Church, start cleaning the bathrooms. Take care of the nursery. Do all things for God in His name, and in due time, God will come. Remember again, take care of His business, and He'll take care of yours. Always ask for prayers, it really helps. Always remember, prayer and fasting, because "THIS KIND" can only be brought out forth nothing, but only by prayer and fasting. God bless sister, take care.