I don't feel like I need a man to complete me. I've never really been on my own so that scares me. It's something new.
What I'm trying to figure out is why he feels like he has to kick me out of his life to figure himself out? Shouldn't we seek God alone as well as a couple to see what He has for us?
Follow Christ and spend time in Prayer to Heal yourself,then your broken relationship with husband..by which i have to say your former husband,because there is a Passage in Holy Scripture that speaks clearly about this where Jesus specifically speaks to a woman who found it confusing who was her real husband..
Unless for immoral sex with another woman,you shouldn't have divorced that man...This is how Holy Scripture says it.So Pray to God to fix that and get back to how God want things to be.
Its not easy like i say,i know.But with God if you slowly start Praying God will do the impossible...
If the former husband was too abusive Pray for him,with God all things are possible..you need to show Patience..
And marriage shouldn't be taken lightly,its a Godly union when we do it Godly..otherwise we can never get Peace...
Now for the former husband,if he is abusive...stay away from him and Pray for him..Have Faith in God and put your Trust in God.Let the burden be God's.
So you can Pray and spend time with God to Heal yourself(again saying that because its needed) and wait on God to fix things.Choice is yours,life is not a romantic movie,its real....
Not trying to hurt you but trying to point you to the direction where permanent solution comes from..
First accept Jesus as your Personal Savior if you are not a Christian(not catholic or some belief with faith on others than Jesus).Join a Church Fellowship that has Faith Foundations on worshiping Jesus only and gives Water Baptism,gives emphasis to other Spiritual standards based on Holy Scripture(KJV 1611 version of Holy Bible-if english is your comfortable language)