CONFRONTING HUSBAND ABOUT HIS MASTURBATION

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FIRST OFF: As believers before marriage (I am assuming, so correct me if I err), you two were involved in fornication with each other and you make no reference to that being disobedience to the love laws of Jesus. There ARE consequences for sexual sin outside of marriage. Do you see that you were walking in sinful behaviour by having sex outside of marriage?

Do you recognize that getting married before God and in the congregation of other believers (again an assumption on my part, worthy or correction) was a very reverent and solemn act of Covenant making with God and other believers and that making this Covenant while walking in sexual sin before marriage is a serious matter?

Let's start there...
 
blue_ladybug said:
Why not? At the very least, maybe it will embarass him into stopping..
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Castrating a rapist will also stop him from that activity, but it is probably the most dangerously deadly thing that can be done. So is deliberately embarrassing your husband about his sexual deviancy. Fastest way in the world to kill your marriage.
 
Have a respectful conversation with him and ask him to block porn from his phone. Then when he gets home from work and has time to rest get into the Song of Solomon in the Bible. Wowee, romance abundant.
 
Hi there,
I would just like to assure you that there is nothing about you that you need to work on or change in this situation. It is incredibly damaging to tell a woman she should do more because her husband is looking at porn. He's cheating on you, that's why it's so incredibly painful. If he acknowledges that, you should seek help together. I hope everything works out and you get the marriage you deserve.
 
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