Confused... utterly

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InkedFaith

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I have no idea what to do.

I have a child by the female that introduced me to church. I treated her wrong and went through the hardest time of my life and she left me after i just wouldnt stop.

I found god and have been trying to keep faith. And i have tried to do right and bring my family back together. But again and again she says i can only get to her though god and that i am somehow not a true believer. But i dont know what more i can do. I am just at a loss and i prey and pray but it seems like i can never do enough. EVER.

I have recently been approached by someone who is also a single parent and in church and living as best she can in the right way by god.... what do i do?

Would it be wrong to make the commitment and make this new option a family? And be there as much as i can for my daughter?

I dont know what to do anymore... I can ask my pastor because she is my baby mother's uncle and that complicates things further. I am lost utterly.
 
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DABEARS85

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What's so difficult for you? I'm confused here....

Are you asking if it's ok to go ahead and date this new girl? Of course it's ok. Why wouldn't it be? Are you married? If not, and your baby's mom left you, then why is it wrong for you to move on as well? I see no problems here. You can't live single forever as punishment just because you did wrong in a previous relationship. She left you, and apparently she doesn't want you back.... so go ahead and move on! As far as your own daughter, just be in her life as much as possible. Be her dad, and things will work out for the best. Good luck bro!
 
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