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Hi everybody.......
I have a problem here..and hope someone will tell me how to solve it..........
this is how it starts.....well....to make the long story short.I fell in love with a guy.......and he was good with me.........though we had many fights still we loved each other liked each other's company...I was damm frank with him..........and I never told him any lies...he is 4 years older than me....and I'm in college right now.and I have quite a lot of friends at college

One fine day day he started telling me things about my friends........that made me uneasy with them and I stopped talking with them......and we got closer still.......and here I must tell about my home..my home is something like a battalion.....they cane you for every fault you do........I'm 20 but they thrash me even now...and in our country especially in our place falling in love is a dreadful sin.....

And to cut it short...my dad found it out one day and caned me and told me of that guy....seems he's something of a hooker.....and he cheats girls.then I left him..........

Then I came to know that...everything he told me about my friends were lies......he accepted it too...but coming to that hooker thing....he denies it.....and I dont know what to do because....when we were in love he use to talk to me all day long even in the nights and he texts me every second...as long as I know he is a good guy....

But now I dont know what to do..........whether to believe him or my dad.........I can't directly believe my dad because he is too harsh with me...he speaks tenderly with my friends even with my bro but never with me.......if some one makes him angry..he comes and thrashes me.....and my ex-boyfriend he is literally begging for another chance...



WHAT DO I DO NOW????:(:(:(:(:(:(
 
Nahum 1:7.... well I really have nothing to say for now, but always remember that in times when it's all confusing and harsh, God is our refuge. We can never really give you answers, but it is through God that you can discern how this problem would be dealt with :)
 
Funny, Guil, that you say we can't give answers, yet you have post after post asking for answers to your problems.

Anyways, to the OP, as far as your father, i'm not sure what to tell you since it seems his behavior may be acceptable in your country, which is quite sad. But as far as your boyfriend, hooker or not doesn't matter if he lied to you about your friends, then stay away from him. Men who do that are often attempting to isolate you, sometimes out of jealousy, or being controlling. But in the long run it leads to abuse most commonly. You are already dealing with that from your father and don't need to be with a man who is going to continue that behavior. Your boyfriend was manipulating you, i would not give him a second chance. You need to spend more time focusing on how to get away from your fathers abuse rather than be in some relationship with a liar and potential abuser.
 
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