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I recently started going back the church... a fellowship actually. I grew up going to Catholic and Luteran churches, but stopped going for a few years. I was now old enough to make my own decision... and wanted to quit being pushed. I had seen drastic changes in my mom and her life. I liked what I had seen and wanted it too. So, just a few months back i joined her. I was amazed. I had never felt what I felt there... anywhere else. I had never gotten what i got anywhere... but there. I was never so close and comfortable with anyone... but there. In just a few months of attending... my life has turned around. I have been experiencing the most craziest wonderful things. I loved that I never heard our fellowship discuss what sinners we are and focus on the all negative. We always just made things better. We didnt have a set of "guidelines" and "rules" to follow. What was explained was... once you truely understand and believe and understand... it will all come naturally. Which was true in my case. I cant believe the decisions and good changes that I have made. BUT... heres the problem. I found out our leader is engaged.. to a woman who is still NOT THROUGH WITH HER DIVORCE! Neither of them see any wrong with it. I have a million q's. Is she free to remarry??? should she try and stay and work her marriage out just to say she tried? Does God like divorce??? Is this considered infedelity? What does scripture say? Am I supporting it and saying its ok if I continue to go?... which I havent (this has caused a world of chaos) Why are they hiding it? Do they know it's wrong and thats why?... She accidentally slipped and said it in front of me. Is this going to give a bad name to the church?... her family doesnt know she is seeing someone through her divore... let alone a leader. Please help!