Contentment in singlehood
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Wait, I thought you said sex was all about a man selfishly coercing his wife into doing something that a woman can't possibly enjoy? Isn't that what you've argued here before? But now you say that it's "biblically commanded" and "inevitable" in marriage.
So, if it's not something you can do with Jesus, then don't do it on Earth? I can't read a book alongside Jesus. Does that mean I should stop reading books?
Uh, if you think it's impossible for a married couple to have sex without being "traumatized for the rest of your life," then, yeah, I think you're better off single.
Why is sex automatically "traumatizing" for married couples?
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This is about justification of sex in marriage, not enjoyment. Enjoy it or not, that's a private matter up to each individual, who are you and I to judge?
Do you read your bible at bible study or church gathering? When two or more gathered in His name, He's in their midst. Therefore you CAN read alongside Jesus.
You should ask a lady for that. They're more emotionally invested and attached, and more likely to be traumatized if it doesn't go well.
Well if you REALLY want to play that game, I assume you have a personal digging tool with you at all times so you can bury your waste as prescribed in Deuteronomy 23? And if you somehow feel that defecating is shameful, why are you still doing it?
Actually...... maybe he's NOT pooping..... that would explain a LOT....
It is you who came up with this game Taking a dump is merely a phisiological need, it is shameful so we do it in private, and it doesn't involve anybody else; sex on the other hand is more of a want, not need which you can't survive without; most importantly it takes another person to fulfill your own want, calling it a "need" is modern corruption as the result of the "sexual revolution". Total false equivalence. Nice try.
Thank you for your concern, I've actually been suffering the opposite of that, loose stool at least once a day. Still false equivalence though, when you compare it to sex, unless you can have sex with yourself. Nice try.
Hey, good point. Then why do you say things along the lines of "women can't enjoy sex"? Is that a "judgment" or no?
What about other books?
Oh. More likely. And if it doesn't go well. OK. That sounds more reasonable, actually.
A few tablespoons of shredded coconut might help tighten up that loose stool.
And the only "false equivalence" is the ones you are making up. My only claim was that both sex and pooping are not shameful when done in the proper context, but constantly working them into VIRTUALLY EVERY CONVERSATION YOU HAVE is weird and inappropriate.
If you can't comprehend that then there really isn't anything else to say.
You even admitted that you've weaponized the topic of sex and use it to ridicule people, which is pathetic, rude, and not what the Lord Jesus died for. But if you're comfortable with it then I don't know what else to tell ya
Time for me to tap out.... I got pulled into this when I saw you offending a new member, but by now they know not to take you seriously. No sense wasting my time further.
Thank you for staying single
Developing a taste for quality cheeses is also effective, especially if you have an Aldi nearby where you can get really good cheese at a startlingly low price. And if you get TOO tight, ease off on the cheese for a couple days.
For REAL though!Thank you for staying single
If a woman does enjoy and share that, she'd be slut shamed, an unfortunate cultural stigma, is that a "judgment" or no?
What about less "what-aboutism?"What about other books?
What's more reasonable is to not use another person's body to fulfill your own desire.
Is the bible itself proper context? If it is so shameful and inappropriate, why did God design marriage to be consummated with that, as "two become one flesh"? Why is it repeatedly mentioned that who and who "knew his wife and she borne a son", as though readers have to be reminded over and over again how babies were made? Am I comfortable with it? No I'm not, your abhorrence made me uncomfortable. You don't seem to be serious by comparing sex with pooping, when the two share no common context.A few tablespoons of shredded coconut might help tighten up that loose stool.
And the only "false equivalence" is the ones you are making up. My only claim was that both sex and pooping are not shameful when done in the proper context, but constantly working them into VIRTUALLY EVERY CONVERSATION YOU HAVE is weird and inappropriate.
If you can't comprehend that then there really isn't anything else to say.
You even admitted that you've weaponized the topic of sex and use it to ridicule people, which is pathetic, rude, and not what the Lord Jesus died for. But if you're comfortable with it then I don't know what else to tell ya
Time for me to tap out.... I got pulled into this when I saw you offending a new member, but by now they know not to take you seriously. No sense wasting my time further.
Thank you for staying single
Be content for real. Dating is unbiblical and a waste of time, especially since dating app has become the norm.
if a single man and a single woman develop friendship going out together, study Bible together, I don't see anything wrong with that. This can be called dating, if both agree.
If not agree, can be called casual friendship.
If not agree, can be called casual friendship.
A married woman would be "slut-shamed" for admitting the simple fact that sex with her husband can be pleasurable? Tell me, do you know of such an incident ever happing in real life?
You seemed to suggest that if something's not directly related to Jesus, we shouldn't be doing it. Is that what you meant?
What if both people---a husband and his wife---desire to have sex and decide to do so? Or is this scenario too far-fetched for you to imagine?
If you don't know the proper context for discussing sexual things at this point then I don't think I can teach you over the internet. Sorry. But just to give you a few hints:
Asking a random woman how she would feel about a "roll in the sheets" is inappropriate.
Bringing up having sex with Jesus is VERY inappropriate.
"Weaponizing the subject and using it to ridicule" is VERY inappropriate.
You are not 12vyears old; I shouldn't have to tell you any of that. But here we are
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Well... He CLAIMS he's not 12 years old.
But he sure don't talk like he's around my age...
But he sure don't talk like he's around my age...
yes, that's why sex is a taboo topic.
doing what?
what if that's their own private matter? What if we stay out of their bedroom?