Dark Attractions

[Subhumanoidal]

I wouldn't worry too much about being attracted to goths, as I understand it it's more of musicfandom/fashion thing. Witches are another matter, steer clear of them.

He is not attracted to them, they are attracted to him.
Also goths tend to focus on paganism 'white witchcraft', spells and rituals and the belief they can put curses on others. Hence the frequently seen up pointing pentagram they often wear. Nature worship, goddess worship and such things.
Not to mention some of them believing themselves to be vampires and will literally drink another's blood.
Most often they are a pretty passive group and you don't see a lot of violence from them.
Naturally depression is quite common with them, and depression causes people to act and think inwardly, not expressing their pain outwardly.
This is why self harm is more common in this subculture.
Some are also into dark things and that adds to the draw of it.
Many seem to feel empowered by the white magic side of it all. People that clearly feel powerless within themselves without it.
And, weirdly, heavier set girls seem drawn to white magic as well. Or even black magic.
And yes, I'm aware all magic is wrong and evil, but this is how they view it.

 

[timemeddler]

He is not attracted to them, they are attracted to him.
Also goths tend to focus on paganism 'white witchcraft', spells and rituals and the belief they can put curses on others. Hence the frequently seen up pointing pentagram they often wear. Nature worship, goddess worship and such things.
Not to mention some of them believing themselves to be vampires and will literally drink another's blood.
Most often they are a pretty passive group and you don't see a lot of violence from them.

havent heard that before, but then again I really don't know a whole lot about the subject, the few I've known were pretty softcore. Though I can imagine there are more extreme ones out there.

 

[Subhumanoidal]

havent heard that before, but then again I really don't know a whole lot about the subject, the few I've known were pretty softcore. Though I can imagine there are more extreme ones out there.

I've kept my eye on some of the subcultures in the past. Being in the metal subculture opens you a bit to other subcultures.
Also having seen them in public or even working with them. And this was 30 years ago, I can only imagine what they're like now.

But, yeah, in any subculture there's always the ones deep into it, and some that dip their toe into it or think they know what it is to be part of that subculture but they're really just wannabes.

 

[SirSolaScriptura]

So the gal kinds revealed herself.. she keeps sending me memes of marrying Satan and stuff. He good friend that friended me plays only Satanic metal music but says he us an Atheist, but if you think about it a Satanic worshiper csn claim athiesm, because they do not worship God or gods, but a fallen angel.

Suffice to say, I have cut tied again.. its hard when you are so isolated. People latch on and you ignore minor signs of darkness or justify it with “I will be a witness.”

What sealed it for mr is she said “your faith is only little part of you, its only little thing.” Oh how she doesnt understand us Christians. Christ is everything, the air we breath, and our heart beat.. sigh.

I lapsed back to the friendship and only more was revealed. I have to do the hard of keeping this soul tie severed.

 

[SirSolaScriptura]

I do have to wonder where it is that u r hanging out in order to attract these ' dark girls ' ? What kind of places r u meeting them ? Maybe u should frequent places where Christian girls r more likely to b found ? Just the first thought that came into my head when I read your post . I would genuinely b interested to know where u actually r when they gravitate towards u ?

It is mostly online, forums and Discord that is fantasy games and shows related.

 

[SirSolaScriptura]

So I have it sorted, you cannot marry an unbeliever,
“A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 7:39). In same way it can be applies for the Man, he must marry a woman who belongs to the Lord.

 

[Snackersmom]

So I have it sorted, you cannot marry an unbeliever,
“A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, but he must belong to the Lord.” (1 Corinthians 7:39). In same way it can be applies for the Man, he must marry a woman who belongs to the Lord.

Well dang, if that's all ya wanted to know we coulda saved ourselves a whole lotta typing! 😜

 

[Lynx]

Well dang, if that's all ya wanted to know we coulda saved ourselves a whole lotta typing! 😜

Arrr lass, now where be the fun in that?

 

[Suze]

Arrr lass, now where be the fun in that?

Shiver me timbers ! 😲 .

 

[SirSolaScriptura]

Well dang, if that's all ya wanted to know we coulda saved ourselves a whole lotta typing! 😜

Well to be fair it took a Pastor who is the only I found online quoting it to draw my attention to it.

Most just cite the “Unevenly yoked,” passage. This one is far more concrete.

 

[Edith]

Yeah what concerns me is my best friend growing up met his wife in middle of a great trauma, her parents of forty plus years were splitting up. Well my bestie is divorced now, because the bond was formed in trenches of trauma as you speak of.

That is my concern, if a Lady falls for me in the middle of her gauntlet or right after, it can be simply that I am an empath and am there and helping, but when she has healed she will leave, because one thing they don't tell you about abused and hurt people, when they heal they want you gone because you remind them of the time they were still healing and hurt, you are medicine box with bandages and memories that remind them of their hard times and so they off load you...

Maybe I need to consider the AI Wife thing lol joking. XD

You are so right. And many breakages in the minds is because we have built our societies so. our minds are conditionned to see faults and refuse to fix it. Just go for separation when it's not going right. while there are extreme cases that need separation there are also some very flimsy reasons for Divorce even among Christians. sincerely it's frightening and I wonder if we still trust Christ to handle our matters.