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tterr007
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SO my mom keeps bringing up that I'm punishing my little brother...
It just has to be me that's the problem. It is quite annoying that when I am going through something she CONSTANTLY has to pick and bring be down.
Sometimes she says the most awful things about me. It just cant be for once that my brother is depending more on his mom than his sister.
She says should have just given him what he wanted lol just an awful thing to say.
She has the responsibility of raising her kid now, it does not seem to be sitting to well.
Instead of me, she is the one reading the bible to him not me. Instead of it being my responsibility to wash him and get his book bag ready sometimes its hers.
How is it punishing my brother that his mom is finally doing the mother things with him instead of his older sister?
Like I said before it just has to be me. It cant be that my little brother is changing and he wants his mom more? It has to be me and my failed relationship causing all the problems.
It always has to be someone else's fault except for hers...always because she's the mom. And this is why most of my sisters prefer to keep their relationships separate from the house. To not get all this backlash when something goes wrong.
What I truly feel, is that she is punishing me. As I said before, punishing me because I am the one who brought Him here. Deep inside I believe that she does blame me.
Or else she wouldn't constantly bring it up every day, since me and my fiancé broke up. I try to be as respectful as possible, but the jabs get old.
Lord give me the grace to handle this situation according to your will.
I suck at handling situations with my family, you know my heart and how I feel.
Me not having my brother in the bed before a certain time, does not have to be my responsibility alone. It should not be I am not his mother, I can help when she is busy. But he is her child, she cant throw him on me when she feels like she doesn't want to deal with him.
It really sucks having to deal with her and this...Makes me want to hide all my feelings and keep them to myself and not tell her anything. Lest she use it against me like she did today.
Its human to not want to be bothered sometimes, but you suck it up and you entertain and be compassionate.
It just has to be me that's the problem. It is quite annoying that when I am going through something she CONSTANTLY has to pick and bring be down.
Sometimes she says the most awful things about me. It just cant be for once that my brother is depending more on his mom than his sister.
She says should have just given him what he wanted lol just an awful thing to say.
She has the responsibility of raising her kid now, it does not seem to be sitting to well.
Instead of me, she is the one reading the bible to him not me. Instead of it being my responsibility to wash him and get his book bag ready sometimes its hers.
How is it punishing my brother that his mom is finally doing the mother things with him instead of his older sister?
Like I said before it just has to be me. It cant be that my little brother is changing and he wants his mom more? It has to be me and my failed relationship causing all the problems.
It always has to be someone else's fault except for hers...always because she's the mom. And this is why most of my sisters prefer to keep their relationships separate from the house. To not get all this backlash when something goes wrong.
What I truly feel, is that she is punishing me. As I said before, punishing me because I am the one who brought Him here. Deep inside I believe that she does blame me.
Or else she wouldn't constantly bring it up every day, since me and my fiancé broke up. I try to be as respectful as possible, but the jabs get old.
Lord give me the grace to handle this situation according to your will.
I suck at handling situations with my family, you know my heart and how I feel.
Me not having my brother in the bed before a certain time, does not have to be my responsibility alone. It should not be I am not his mother, I can help when she is busy. But he is her child, she cant throw him on me when she feels like she doesn't want to deal with him.
It really sucks having to deal with her and this...Makes me want to hide all my feelings and keep them to myself and not tell her anything. Lest she use it against me like she did today.
Its human to not want to be bothered sometimes, but you suck it up and you entertain and be compassionate.
I'll be praying for you!