I dunno... Being a man seems simple enough.
Do what needs doing.
Don't meddle in stuff just for drama.
Don't sleep with girls just because they say yes.
Be aware that life is good and decide to enjoy it.
All the junk that makes being a man hard comes from what the world says a man should be. When a man tries to be a Christian and still act like what the world says a man should be, it gets even harder.
But then... I never cared much what other people thought anyway, so it's pretty simple to be a man.