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JeyBoo

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Madi,

You judge me. Say I can't do it. I'm strong, I'm the Lord's daughter. You don't know much about me anymore. We were friends once, but that was different. We weren't really friends, we were more like enemies that got along. We did things together that were bad for us and we did things that we regret. We've known each other for about 10 years and I know that it's hard to let you go. We are to different now. I am strong and a blossoming Christian where you are weak, broken and judgmental. I don't mean this in a bad way, I just want myself to be free without the restrictions that you give me. I don't want to tell you that we can't be friends, but I don't want to force you to change for me. I want you to be a better person with christian morals and happiness. But you won't do that for me, so I must let you go.

What we had was great, we had so much fun. But now the timing isn't so great, I will miss you and I still love you but you're not the friend I need. You broke my heart, more than once, that's not something that I need. You will be strong without me. I know you will. I just hope that someday you will look back and see that you should have made the better choice.. I'm sorry, but this is how it has to be.

Yours Truly, Jensen.


P.S. Readers, I didn't really send this to my friend. This is what I want to say to her. It's like a way to express my feelings without her knowing. I don't need your support on how to drop her as a friend, because truth is, I don't want to leave her. But I do want all of you to know that friends like this aren't good for our Christianity. I just need to stay strong without her.
 
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Ugly

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Usually not a good idea to post things and then expect people to not say things you don't want to hear. Its more wise that if you don't want comments, or certain types of comments, then just don't post it. Write it for yourself, not for the whole world to comment on.
Especially when you make it so obvious how bad this person is for you.
 
Storm_Chaser_Gal

Storm_Chaser_Gal

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It's a warning and example of what we christians need to look for when we think about close friends. If you were patient enough to understand what she meant, perhaps you may see where she is coming from. She only asked for no support. Not too hard to ask?
 
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