Dear Jordache
Forgive me if I was misunderstood . But God doesn't even need to Use Pain to teach us. Pain and suffering is not a Godly tool , designed to bring us to a place of loving God more , or serving Him more , or even Understanding Him more . God leads us by His Great Grace , and by His Holy Spirit . I realize that by saying this I can offend delicate religious sensibilities in alot of areas . Simply because for years the Church has taught that pain and suffering is just another way that God leads us into understanding . It isn't . God loves you and He has provided a Much better way by which you can grow and learn . By His Word , By His Spirit , By walking with Him on a daily basis . You are Greatly Loved of God Jordache , and He Never wants to see you in pain , it simply isn't in His nature , and it has No part in the New Covenant of which Jesus is the mediator .