desperate and lonely

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My wife and I are still at odds. She seems to be extremely depressed and isnt responding to my attempts to reach her. It's causing me to think as if I'm such a horrible person, maybe I should find a way to release her from this burden of me being here with her. Thank you, sincerely from a broken, crushed heart and spirit, she deserved the best and I came and gave her the worst! Thanks for your prayers.
 
If you want to reach her heart, in everything you do, let it be unto Jesus, and for her.
Seek no reward for yourself, no matter how she reacts or does not react.
For when she sees that your heart is compleatly for her healing, and nothing for self, and then you continue beyond this for her sake and unto Jesus.
This is the witness she needs to decide, and to trust in Jesus, and in hope, trust you also.
You both remain in my prayers in Jesus's name with praise and thanksgiving.

God bless
pickles
 
May the Lord bless you as you love your wife, and make her heart soft toward you, my brother.
May it be, as pickles said, all about Jesus, in both your hearts.
But do not worry about the place of her heart...the Lord will care for that. ♥
 
I pray for the Lord to heal the deep hurts that sems to be in both your lifes. I pray that you would seek God and His wisdom for you and your wife. Draw near to God at this time and He will draw near to you. Praying for total restoration for your family. Love your sister in Christ
 
I pray the LORD restore joy to you both and his presence draw you to him and his throne of grace, in Jesus name
 
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Brother, you're listening to the devil. God joined you two together in holy matrimony and He wants you to get through the hard stuff together. The vow is "for better or for worse".

If you're having trouble communicating, a counselor is good for being an objective person who can get those lines open. You won't be able to work out anything until you're talking. Please seek help from your church,pastor,mature friend, or a Christian counselor :).

Praying for you strength and guidance. Don't give up but keep your eyes focused on the finish line.
 
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