Let me see if I can make it a bit more clearly. In Eph 1, before God even spoke the world into existence he choose an elect people, not because by his foreknowledge of seeing who would accept him because God looked down on the children of men, to see if there were any that did understand, and seek God, They are all gone aside, they are altogether become filthy, there is none that doeth good, no not one. Ps 14:2-3. These are the people that God choose his elect from and sent his Son to redeem them back to him, so he would have a people that would give him praise and honor. Those that God choose are the same ones that he gave to his Son to die for their sins, John 6:39. Christ's death on the cross has a limited atonement, those that God gave him, his elect, not all mankind, and not the carnal man that would accept him because the carnal man, void of the Spirit can not discern spiritual things, 1 Cor 2:14. I do not expect you to believe this, unless it is revealed to you by the Holy Spirit that dwells inside of you. Luke 10:21, In that hour Jesus rejoiced in spirit, and said, I thank thee, O Father, Lord of heaven and earth, that thou hast hid these things from the wise and prudent, and hast revealed them unto babes, even so, Father, for so it seemed good in thy sight. I do not understand a lot about God, as why he does and does not do, and especially why he does not reveal this doctrine to but a few. I hope this gives you more insight as to how I believe. I believe this doctrine to have more comfort, and peace of mind than any other doctrine I have heard.