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OK, been married for 3 years now, and things continue to get worse. I have been made to choose between my wife and my parents, which I chose my wife, because biblically I should leave and cleave. She has invited her family into our family's business and most of the time uses them collectively to run the place. I feel not only betrayed, belittled, but also hindered from serving God because I cannot run my own house without ending our marriage. I have unconditionally loved her, and even worked hard to put an occurrence of adultery behind us, and yet she is still like this. Claims to love me and tries apologize when I am ready to leave. I'm on the verge now, and I am not saying anything to her, communication is gone because its basically he'd and the family's way or nothing. I want counselling and she does not, because we can't afford it, I offered to work a second job to pay for it, but she would rather use extra money to pay down debt, of which there is little except her own spending habits. What do I do? Feel like I have turned my back on God and my family.