Disowned

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Well I've been officially disowned. I wrote my father a letter asking him not to contact me until he decided to admit the abuse that went on when I was a child. My stepmom FB'd me to tell me it was all in my head and my mother planted it there. She told me I needed the help and not to contact them until I was better.
How did I become the bad guy? I mean I know how. But I was a child. He was the one who didnt respect my boundaries. He was the one who treated me the way he did. My stepmom is very deceived. He thinks his perversions are fine because he's a man and boys will be boys. She doesn't realize the distruction of pornography. He doesn't realize that some things just aren't ok. Lord have mercy on her.
 
Im so sorry to hear this. I did read your other one. I just want you to pray and lift it all up to God. I know its hard and sometimes its easier said than done, but I would pray for peace from God and what he wants you to do. I know now its even harder cause you found out that his cancer is back. Ask God to guide you and to give you that forgiving heart and to not be bitter. Ask God to forgive him and then lift him up all the troubles up to God to have so you wont have that burden anymore. I dont know if you have done that yet or not. I know sometimes like you did, write a letter so that other person would know, but dont let their come backs get to you. I did that the other day on New Years Eve....i wrote 4 people and asked them to forgive me or I told them I forgave them and i was leaving it all in 2011. The one person that responded, which is the person that I asked to forgive me and I apoligized too, said, she meant everything she said, and she didnt care what I had to say. I just told her God Bless and she said, serisoulsy, just lose my number. I didnt respond, have nothing to say, but I gave her to God. God knew my heart and tho I wasnt expecting something like that back, (actually I was from this girl, lol) I didnt care. My heart isnt bitter, God knew my heart and knew I meant good and since I have done all this, I feel great. I took all the negative people out of my life and all the people that distracted my walk with the Lord, including my husband and ex boyfriend!!!! Hopefully they can see the light of Jesus in Me :) God Bless!!!! Ill keep you and your family in my prayers!
 
Jordache said:
Lord have mercy on her.
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Agreed in prayer. In Jesus Name, Amen.


You are doing great!

The LORD delivers you because He delights in you. His gentleness makes you great.

Keep declaring His Word to the storms, to stay on course.

The Lord is my righteousness.
I will live and declare the works of the Lord.
No weapon formed against me shall prosper.
The rivers will not overflow me, the fire will not burn me.
The LORD is at my right hand, I shall not be moved.
The LORD will perfect everything that concerns me.
He will provide everything that I need according to His riches and glory in Christ Jesus.
I will fear no evil, the LORD is with me.
I will not lack anything that I need.
The LORD will raise a standard up against the flood of the enemy (Eph 6:12).
They will flee from me seven ways.
I will see my enemies fall before my eyes.
I will beat them as fine as the dust and they will blow away like chaff in the wind.
The whirlwind will scatter them.
They are fallen under my feet.
I cast them out like dirt in the streets.
No evil shall befall me.
No plague shall come near my dwelling.
The Word of the LORD is tried.
He is a shield to all those who put their trust in him.

Let my enemies be bound in Jesus Name. Cast them to the depths.

Let God be true and every man (un-regenerated) a liar.

Let man be ashamed unto salvation.

Let their (man's) prayers be answered quickly, according to the Lord's will, when they humble themselves and pray.

Move powerfully in my life, in all of those who concern me, and especially my nation. I cry out for her as if she is my own soul. Save me Lord. Have mercy upon me. Pour your Spirit upon my youth and let them lead their parents to You. In Jesus Name, Amen.
 
hello, i am so sorry you are going through this, i can relate in a way. my mom was with someone who mentally abused me for years and physically abused my sister and she stayed with him, the feeling is horrible my mother died from cancer cause he made it so that she wouldnt get help. all i can say is stay strong and maybe one day your mom will see the truth, im sure your stepmom just doesnt want to see the truth so she hides from it, i will pray for you and hope all will be well for you. godbless
 
Huge hugs Jordache, your father's and step moms reaction is tipical, just keep forgiiving in Jesus.
You are doing great, so dont let them steal your victory in Jesus from you.
Praying for you and your father as well, for healing in body and soul.

Hugs and God bless :)
pickles
 
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