Honestly, if I were to listen and concern about what my family said about me, I would be insane long ago and lived in an institution instead. You are an independent individual, no ne can hurt you except yourself.well its not just 'someone' its my mum. and um yes I live with my family. its not like I can just go live with anyone else.
what parents say actually does affect children, even when they are adults. thats just the way it is.