You were curious about my relationship with God. If I didn't have a relationship with him, I wouldn't be here. And I don't like anyone asking me that. I would never ask you that or anyone that. Communicating with God beyond a certain point is a personal choice. Freewill. And everyone does it their way. There is no one way or the other.
I don't think in extremes as you put it. I would never use the words that "life is unfair", like you said. And I am the last person to worry what anyone thinks of me. What you assume about me isn't correct. And you cannot assume ething about someone without judging them first. So there you go. And I told you it's ok. No problem. I know you're trying to help and I appreciate you for it.
In my circle of Christian friends, that is a question commonly asked and discussed and no one takes offense. Questions such as, how is your spiritual life? Have you spoken with a pastor or others in small group setting, and no has not asked you that? And, you don't care about anyone else's relationship with God? I am not going to over your earlier posts again, but you did speak in extremes a few times.