hello everyone.
i need advice on this one too. heheh.
God help me.
wel!as u all know that i have 2 boys with different dadds, my first is 9 and the last i 4months.
the father to the first, he's not been in our lives since we departed from each other for 9 yrs ago. but he never stopped loving me that one i know,he was just not ready to be aman that time i think.
now is back asking me to give him another chance,even if am with a new born baby he says, but the thing is i dnt love him anymore. i thought that for now he should have gotten some one,but no he keeps on asking me what re my plans for the future.?
guys i dnt know what to do,but i lost trust in men. i dnt even know how to start to say that i love u as my man mmmm....its like a dream for me.
but when i look around, he is not that bad atall. he makes my his son so happy and him knowing that mum and dad re here both it is like adream come true for him. my baby too he 's so happy when he is around him, he's just laughing him self out. me too i'm happy and really feel like am nolonger stressed or tired, since he is helping me almost with everything. i know its better to be with him for my kids sake than getting some new in there lives,since he loves my lastborn as much as his son.. but i dnt love him at all,then if i give him this chance,when wil i ever love or feel that YES i love my man, its like am sacrifying my self for the sake of my childrens happiness.
isn't it?
he says that he has changed, coz he is 39 on 1.04, but i see him as afriend to me. so if i marry him, he wil be enjoying with his sons, love the woman he loves, yet me i wil be just happy becoz my kids are happy, but me i wil be lost.
pliz guys. can some one tell me some thing?
thank u all.