Do you believe that men should stay virgin before getting married?

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Hey! I'd like to know your real point of view... God bless!


Absolutely Diane. Both men and women should stay and remain virgins until they get married. It is the Biblical thing to do.


1 Corinthians 7:1-2 KJV
Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. [2] Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband.


Hebrews 13:4 KJV
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.


2 Timothy 2:22 KJV
Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.
 
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Yeah. Why is this a men only thing? Or rather, why do your posts seem to be focused on what MEN 'should' do?

But yes, IF they are a virgin they should stay a virgin. Same as a woman. Regardless of if they marry or not. But if they already have had sex, then it shouldn't matter either. Peoples pasts shouldn't be held against them. What matters is their actions and heart Now, not what it was before.
 
According to modern society men who do this are losers and need to be hung and burned alive. Oh well, nothing thousands of Christians didnt already go through.
 
According to modern society men who do this are losers and need to be hung and burned alive. Oh well, nothing thousands of Christians didnt already go through.

Sexual martyr for Christ??

Interesting.



Yes I believe men should be virgins before they marry. Furthermore, I believe that they should flee from sexual immorality in all forms - that means killing lust before it takes root. By this I mean not lusting over any woman (including their fiance) until they are married. Oh, and no touching yourself.
 
Do you believe that men AND women should stay virgin before getting married ?

Absolutely, ma'am !
 
Yes, men should stay virgins before getting married. And I'm not just saying that because I'm a virgin.
 
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Holy necro thread bump!

Though I said some things in this thread that made me giggle, so I'm not really complaining all that much about it.
 
I do think it is important to maintain virginity until marriage. Now, I realize we do live in the 21st century and know that people do make mistakes. So I would not consider it a deal breaker if he has had premarital relations.
 
It's not really a question of what we think is it? As Christians our standard is found in the Word alone. There isn't room for personal opinions. Scripture makes it explicit that God intended relationships as a union. Sexual relations are reserved for the marriage bond.