Do you guys ever worry that you're gonna be alone forever like me?

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hmmm...yes sometimes i worry that i will be alone forever...but sometimes when i'm having a great time with my family and friends and i am focusing more on the Lord the worry fades...
 
kristinei, is anyone puttin gpressure on you to get married? I have heard of that happening.
 
i have a friend she is now in her 40s

one day her father came and showed her his best suit

I was keeping this to give you away in - but I can see I will have no need of it now

imagine how she felt
 
kristinei said:
but u r only 21... so young to get married dot
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Well I am gonna wait till I atleast 25, and have the money to support a family. The problem is that I'll probably end up have the end up having the money to support a family a long time before I even get a girlfriend at this rate. :(
 
dothackzero said:
Well I am gonna wait till I atleast 25, and have the money to support a family. The problem is that I'll probably end up have the end up having the money to support a family a long time before I even get a girlfriend at this rate. :([/qu

well for me a guy shld be financially stable first b4 committing to someone bcs he will be soon the head of the family...so just enjoy being single atm and wait for God's time
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Sharp said:
I had a friend like you in high school. Always looking for girls but never getting them. The girls knew that was all he was after, so they didn't like him. This guy had no social skills, but he had confidence. The reason that he had confidence is that he practiced alot. He would constantly talk to girls. Sometimes they wouldn't even respond, because he was pretty sleazy. But he kept trying, and failing.

He started succeeding after going to the gym, getting a job, wearing nice clothes and basically growing up, getting life experience. THEN he used the confidence he already had to get alot of phone numbers.

So if you really want to get a girlfriend, just practice talking to random girls in the street, and see if you can get their phone numbers, even if you have no intention of calling them. Then when you find a good christian girl or she finds you, you will know what you are doing as you will have done it before many times.
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Wow, thats so wrong.
 
dothackzero said:
I know with me it's probably my OCD or one my other anxiety disorders that causes the thought, but it still hard for me to not worry about it. Just wanted to know what guys think, and I'm wondering if I'm just worrying too much about this with myself.
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haha yes lol but then i think im just being like the israelites in the desert when they were between miracles haha it easy to doubt when we see no movement from god :(
 
THEY ALL HAVE GOOD AND VALID POINTS SLOW DOWN YOUR ONLY 21 the right girl will come to you delivered by our lord! IT IS ALL WAYS IN HIS TIME OR IT SHOULD BE? I MADE THE MISTAKE OF TRYING TO DO IT MY WAY AND AFTER SEVEN YEARS IT HAS FALLEN APART BECAUSE I COULD NOT WAIT I WENT FROM ONE BAD MARRIAGE INTO ANOTHER ALL BECAUSE I WONTED TO DO THINGS MY WAY. YES IF YOU GO ON YOUR OWN YOU MAY FIND A NICE GIRL THEN THREE YEARS OR SO DOWN THE ROAD IT FALLS APART BECAUSE OUR LORD WAS NOT THE CENTER OF THE RELATIONSHIP HE TELLS US TIME AND TIME AGIN TO WAIT ON HIM! WELL THIS TIME HE GETS HIS WAY I AM TIRED OF FAILING DOING IT MY WAY.TRUST HIM HE WILL DELIVER YOU OUT OF THIS AND PUT YOU TOGETHER WITH ONE HE HAS CHOSEN JUST FOR YOU.GOD BLESS YOU AND MY HIS TRUE PLAN BE REVELED TO YOU.
DAVID
 
singleparent said:
THEY ALL HAVE GOOD AND VALID POINTS SLOW DOWN YOUR ONLY 21 the right girl will come to you delivered by our lord! IT IS ALL WAYS IN HIS TIME OR IT SHOULD BE? I MADE THE MISTAKE OF TRYING TO DO IT MY WAY AND AFTER SEVEN YEARS IT HAS FALLEN APART BECAUSE I COULD NOT WAIT I WENT FROM ONE BAD MARRIAGE INTO ANOTHER ALL BECAUSE I WONTED TO DO THINGS MY WAY. YES IF YOU GO ON YOUR OWN YOU MAY FIND A NICE GIRL THEN THREE YEARS OR SO DOWN THE ROAD IT FALLS APART BECAUSE OUR LORD WAS NOT THE CENTER OF THE RELATIONSHIP HE TELLS US TIME AND TIME AGIN TO WAIT ON HIM! WELL THIS TIME HE GETS HIS WAY I AM TIRED OF FAILING DOING IT MY WAY.TRUST HIM HE WILL DELIVER YOU OUT OF THIS AND PUT YOU TOGETHER WITH ONE HE HAS CHOSEN JUST FOR YOU.GOD BLESS YOU AND MY HIS TRUE PLAN BE REVELED TO YOU.
DAVID
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Doing all capitals doesn't help David:)

Thank you for reminding me.

I waited until I was 49 doing it God's way

Then I tried to do it my way - God warned me.

He saved me from making a HUGE mistake

i learned that lesson:D
 
You know your right ment nothing by it all this internet stuff is new to me but I will defenetly be mindfull of that in all my future correspondence greaykaw. Say does that name have a greater significance down under? David
 
Oh I see that's cool thanks for bringing the caps to my attention.
 
worried?!no not really .... i was looking for a good talk.. when i just found this site...bang! i'm here... anyway... i have a good one... when i was 18, one day on unexpected it rainy night and there was a guy who is kind enough to ask me to go under his umbrella,never bother ask my name and he pay my raid for free how gentleman he is after that i got home and phone friend asking "am ugly" end of story.
when i was 20 sideways teenager crushing on me, and can't pick one of them and date with because there like my little brother.
then i was 21, until i finally thought this is the one i thought but somehow in all aspect of life he is not. I never saw him again when he walk out the door. lesson learn, Being in pass track mode and i'm only considering what the moment giving me and thinking maybe it will never happen again.
until now i never got involved is not because i'm afraid but because If God's will that I will have guy by my side someday and He think I'm ready enough and whole and strong to face challenges it will happen. I just pray and accepted both whether i'll be single for life or not. God is giving us a lot of surprises it is up to us how will manage those kinds of gifts trial. Important is we have trust and faith.
 
atm i'm a lil worried that i will be alone.. esp now that im 30... so so so so hard to wait for that special someone... so so so so hard...where are u?????????????????
 
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