Christians should not seek for help or answers before going to God first, he will direct your path. wait for him to give you an answer, not a sign, but an answer. going outside of the kingdom for answers displeases God. He said that he is a jeaslous God and that he will have no other God before him. patience, perseverance, and endurance is required. this is to prove to you how much you trust God,and not man.