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QUOTE=breann;3225112]ok i am 19 and kind of worried i wont be accepted i am not a chrtian but i am searching.i am transgendered live as a girl and i feel god made me that way. evere since i was 12 i have been living as a girl and feel good about it. i know some christians think i am going to hell, but there are some that are accepting of me, i just want to make friends and get advice i respect christians most are very nice ppl hope i find new friends love u[/QUOTE]
well hopefully I can talk to you before some"smart alec" people do,(we cannot accept such lifestyles as Christians but we are not to be rude or hurtful toward anyone)I'm actually quite glad you were honest in your starting out post,(gave you rep because it takes courage to be open with people despite expecting hurtful words),well Brian(breanne) to be clear concerning your gender,you were born male,so you are male,this doesn't mean that you will be masculine more than feminine as far as what you like,for example you don't have to call yourself a girl to like bright looking clothes(I like bright blue particularly)the confusion you are experiencing actually happens to plenty of people,because of their"thoughts" like a man thinking pink is nicer to wear than blue,or a woman thinking blue to be nicer than pink to wear,these aren't wrong to think but because of people's stereotypes people can start thinking,"wait maybe I'm a different gender" because of such stereotypes,just like in school some kids are horribly mean saying well that person must be this and that just because of things they do or don't do,and the transgender subject is no different,is it a sin?yes it is because you are "lieing" in a major way,not intentionally but still "lieing" to yourself most of all,because in truth our genders just like our lives are given to us by God through birth,whether we change anything about ourselves does not change our genders,like I said you most likely do like more "feminine" things over thing that are "masculine" but that doesn't make you a different gender,that just is simply what you think it's no big deal,what is sin depends on the thought for example again if you all of a sudden start randomly thinking a man is "handsome" or "hot" looking,this is where the devil gets people such as you Brian(breanne) or so called "gay" people to confuse what you think as a what you "feel" you see sometimes guys will look at other guys and think"he's so cool!" but the devil warps the thought into "he's so hot",and the more an individual believes on their "thoughts" instead of "feelings" they start doubting who and what they are,which in your case you are a man but for whatever reason the devil has bombarded you with "thoughts" so you don't think on your "feelings"'and doubt yourself and more his overall goal you begin to doubt God,let me share further with you about God and you decide for yourself what you believe,Ecclesiastes Chp.3 verse 11,first line,"He hath made every thing beautiful in his time:
now does this sound like God didn't make you "correctly"?,making all things in "his" "time" he took the time to make everything,including us,(I don't care who rags on me for saying this next phrase!)
God made each one of us,including you Brian(breanne)each one of us being "Beautiful" no matter our gender,to go against how God made us is to despise the time he took to make us,and of all things not making us,"ugly"but instead "Beautiful",meaning it doesn't matter what random thoughts we have or what people say we were "Beautiful" at birth and had no need to change such things as gender or our original liking of those whom we desire in an intimate way,in your case Brian(Breanne)and my case,this would be women,if we seek a relationship(it's not necessary),so don't doubt yourself you are a Man tune out those who trouble you and pray for God to help you clear the random wicked thoughts from your mind that the devil puts therein,people will always open their mouths when they should hold their tongues but,you are not what they say you are as God made you originally"Beautiful",all of us are sinners,and we "All"'need God to keep us from confusion and sin,I can only hope that you will think upon what I have said and come to God for he loved you from the beginning before anyone else,and he still would like to guide you and protect,God bless you!
to a lost soul but their account was deleted before they could see what I advised,I'm not venting I just think this could have helped the individual,and I feel a bit torn because I know that Mods,deleted the person's account/banned them for understandable reasons but I'm left wondering could this have helped this individual,I'm not upset I just feel disheartened because this could have meant one more soul coming to God,but now I feel almost like I failed God,even though I tried my best.....
QUOTE=breann;3225112]ok i am 19 and kind of worried i wont be accepted i am not a chrtian but i am searching.i am transgendered live as a girl and i feel god made me that way. evere since i was 12 i have been living as a girl and feel good about it. i know some christians think i am going to hell, but there are some that are accepting of me, i just want to make friends and get advice i respect christians most are very nice ppl hope i find new friends love u[/QUOTE]
well hopefully I can talk to you before some"smart alec" people do,(we cannot accept such lifestyles as Christians but we are not to be rude or hurtful toward anyone)I'm actually quite glad you were honest in your starting out post,(gave you rep because it takes courage to be open with people despite expecting hurtful words),well Brian(breanne) to be clear concerning your gender,you were born male,so you are male,this doesn't mean that you will be masculine more than feminine as far as what you like,for example you don't have to call yourself a girl to like bright looking clothes(I like bright blue particularly)the confusion you are experiencing actually happens to plenty of people,because of their"thoughts" like a man thinking pink is nicer to wear than blue,or a woman thinking blue to be nicer than pink to wear,these aren't wrong to think but because of people's stereotypes people can start thinking,"wait maybe I'm a different gender" because of such stereotypes,just like in school some kids are horribly mean saying well that person must be this and that just because of things they do or don't do,and the transgender subject is no different,is it a sin?yes it is because you are "lieing" in a major way,not intentionally but still "lieing" to yourself most of all,because in truth our genders just like our lives are given to us by God through birth,whether we change anything about ourselves does not change our genders,like I said you most likely do like more "feminine" things over thing that are "masculine" but that doesn't make you a different gender,that just is simply what you think it's no big deal,what is sin depends on the thought for example again if you all of a sudden start randomly thinking a man is "handsome" or "hot" looking,this is where the devil gets people such as you Brian(breanne) or so called "gay" people to confuse what you think as a what you "feel" you see sometimes guys will look at other guys and think"he's so cool!" but the devil warps the thought into "he's so hot",and the more an individual believes on their "thoughts" instead of "feelings" they start doubting who and what they are,which in your case you are a man but for whatever reason the devil has bombarded you with "thoughts" so you don't think on your "feelings"'and doubt yourself and more his overall goal you begin to doubt God,let me share further with you about God and you decide for yourself what you believe,Ecclesiastes Chp.3 verse 11,first line,"He hath made every thing beautiful in his time:
now does this sound like God didn't make you "correctly"?,making all things in "his" "time" he took the time to make everything,including us,(I don't care who rags on me for saying this next phrase!)
God made each one of us,including you Brian(breanne)each one of us being "Beautiful" no matter our gender,to go against how God made us is to despise the time he took to make us,and of all things not making us,"ugly"but instead "Beautiful",meaning it doesn't matter what random thoughts we have or what people say we were "Beautiful" at birth and had no need to change such things as gender or our original liking of those whom we desire in an intimate way,in your case Brian(Breanne)and my case,this would be women,if we seek a relationship(it's not necessary),so don't doubt yourself you are a Man tune out those who trouble you and pray for God to help you clear the random wicked thoughts from your mind that the devil puts therein,people will always open their mouths when they should hold their tongues but,you are not what they say you are as God made you originally"Beautiful",all of us are sinners,and we "All"'need God to keep us from confusion and sin,I can only hope that you will think upon what I have said and come to God for he loved you from the beginning before anyone else,and he still would like to guide you and protect,God bless you!
to a lost soul but their account was deleted before they could see what I advised,I'm not venting I just think this could have helped the individual,and I feel a bit torn because I know that Mods,deleted the person's account/banned them for understandable reasons but I'm left wondering could this have helped this individual,I'm not upset I just feel disheartened because this could have meant one more soul coming to God,but now I feel almost like I failed God,even though I tried my best.....
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