My friend's church member got married to someone at their church. They were at a prayer meeting one day. God told him to look up and notice that woman in front of him ( for example i don't know which direction) but he did and God said, " This is your wife". They got married and have three wonderful children

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Ladies i don't think that it's our job to find the man. Yes we do need to be outgoing and witness kingdom living to other people. But I strongly feel that the guy should be looking. It shouldn't have to be up to the women to find him.
Now i'm not saying not to be out going. No way! I'm just saying let him find you. Have fun and meet different people.. hey you might just run across the one you need to be with.
It wasn't Eve who made herself out of Adam's rib. It was God who chose Adam to be Eve's husband.
As for the dream. pray to God about it. This dream may be a thing where this person needs to be ministered to etc. Discern the spirits.