Actually, A&E were partners in crime (Gen. 3:6-7). The serpent contradicted God
Actually, the first "deception" was Adam's, not the serpents. The first part is a question:
Gen 3:1 Now the serpent was more crafty than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said to the woman, "Indeed, has God said, 'You shall not eat from any tree of the garden'?"
Not a deception. The serpents statement is 100% truth. She did not have her eyes opened at all till she gave Adam the fruit and she ate. NO CONSEQUENCES AT ALL. There was no violation of the will of God.
" Gen 3:2 And the woman said to the serpent, "From the fruit of the trees of the garden we may eat; 3 but from the fruit of the tree which is in the middle of the garden, God has said, 'You shall not eat from it or touch it, lest you die.'" 4 And the serpent said to the woman, "You surely shall not die! 5 "For God knows that in the day you eat from it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil."
I do not have a problem with changing my beliefs. Just do so without adding, subtracting or distorting the clear meaning of scripture to do so.
and thereby tempted A&E to commit the first sin. In Gen. 2:17, God had told Adam who told Eve they would die if they ate fruit from the tree of knowledge of good and evil,
God NEVER said "They" would die if "They" ate. NEVER. Adam never knew there was going to be an Eve till after she was created. That's the point. Adam "Deceived" his wife.
but the serpent introduced the option of ungodliness or functional atheism, which they chose. The first or original sin was not eating physical fruit, but rather choosing not to doubt the Devil, not to believe/cooperate with God, and not asking God why the serpent contradicted what He had told them (Matt. 7:7). It is wise to question God.
Ok ... where in scripture does this come from? I see the (2) reasons Adam got his consequences.
Gen 3:17 Then to Adam He said, "Because
you have listened to the voice of your wife, and have eaten from the tree about which I commanded
you, saying, '
You shall not eat from it'; Cursed is the ground because of
you; In toil
you shall eat of it All the days of your life.
Oh, and by the way, the (You) in every part of the verse above, is singular. Adam alone.
A&E tried to cover up their crime, refusing to accept responsibility for their mistakes. They should have confessed immediately (1John 1:9). Instead their ungodly attitude was manifested by a chain of sins, including their silly attempt to hide from God and to blame someone else and very likely “dysfunctional” parenting that probably contributed to the emotional disturbance (anger) in Cain that resulted in the murder of Abel and so on and so forth through the millenniums, initiating humanity’s sinful history of “King of the Hill” (KOTH) strife.
We can guess all we want. But best not to simply guess at the meaning of scripture. And you are right. there is no blaming our origins for how we turn out. We all just start at different points. The path, and the "Fruits" resulting from it, determine where we end up.