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So I fell out with someone who did nothing to me but I saw how they treated others and I couldn't take. Worse is that I still have to see them at work. Since I've heard the worldly opinions, I would like honest opinions from Gods positive people.
At work I pretty much keep to myself. A new person started working there a few years after me and was already friends with a coworker. Well the new coworker started being really friendly with me, like being extra nice that I thought it was weird. But I went ahead and opened up and we became close
But through the whole "friendship" I had a funny feeling about her. Since I kept to myself so much I didn't notice that the she had fallen out with the other coworker she had been friends with plus 2 othet ppl she would talk to. But when it came to my attention that's when everything started unfolding
She said they were petty and stop talking to her for no reason. She even tried to say things to me to make me think they were against me. She would gossip a lot about the coworker she fell our with, telling everything that happened b/n them as friends. EVERYTHING
We had a divide at work that got so bad that the supervisor had to address the situation. I didn't deal with this even in high school. But the coworker I befriended was a huge gossip. She even talked about ppl she was currently friends with. And I was guilty for entertaining it. But after a while I was tired of it.
So I prayed about it and told God how I felt. And I just stop talking to her, just pulled away. That was last year. The sight of her still upsets me(we still work together) and I'm mad at myself for going against my intuition and befriending her .
When we did try to make up and I tried set anger aside. She would text me gossip. It was always something about someone else. So now we have tension. She had turned coworkers against me. I can tell when I've been talked about. She used me so she could someone on her side since the other coworker had 2 friends that stuck close to her. And she keeps doing it. Befriending ppl just because she's afraid to stand alone, a parasite. She does all kinds of petty things to tick me off or get attention. Ex. talking really loud about what she's doing, getting to work early just park where ever I would park the day before. I mean it's so much and so draining.
At work I pretty much keep to myself. A new person started working there a few years after me and was already friends with a coworker. Well the new coworker started being really friendly with me, like being extra nice that I thought it was weird. But I went ahead and opened up and we became close
But through the whole "friendship" I had a funny feeling about her. Since I kept to myself so much I didn't notice that the she had fallen out with the other coworker she had been friends with plus 2 othet ppl she would talk to. But when it came to my attention that's when everything started unfolding
She said they were petty and stop talking to her for no reason. She even tried to say things to me to make me think they were against me. She would gossip a lot about the coworker she fell our with, telling everything that happened b/n them as friends. EVERYTHING
We had a divide at work that got so bad that the supervisor had to address the situation. I didn't deal with this even in high school. But the coworker I befriended was a huge gossip. She even talked about ppl she was currently friends with. And I was guilty for entertaining it. But after a while I was tired of it.
So I prayed about it and told God how I felt. And I just stop talking to her, just pulled away. That was last year. The sight of her still upsets me(we still work together) and I'm mad at myself for going against my intuition and befriending her .
When we did try to make up and I tried set anger aside. She would text me gossip. It was always something about someone else. So now we have tension. She had turned coworkers against me. I can tell when I've been talked about. She used me so she could someone on her side since the other coworker had 2 friends that stuck close to her. And she keeps doing it. Befriending ppl just because she's afraid to stand alone, a parasite. She does all kinds of petty things to tick me off or get attention. Ex. talking really loud about what she's doing, getting to work early just park where ever I would park the day before. I mean it's so much and so draining.