Yeah, the fat and obese debate is unsettling. My daughter told me she has a friend that is delete pounds heavier than her and this friend considers herself fat. My daughter is quite slim.
It's just important that parents talk to their children about such matters, early and as often as needed. I'm happy my daughter and I feel comfortable talking about most things. And she seems to be taking a very balanced approach to her health.
Hopefully, she won't overhear me and my wife too often. One night, my wife and I were lying in bed. She had her hand on my stomach and I pushed it away out of embarrassment. I had always been in really good shape, but I found myself more than a little plump at the time. My wife put her hand back and said, "I like your fat." I replied, "Well, I don't like my fat. And for the record, I don't like yours either."
The bottom line is, it's important to emphasize the wisdom of taking care of one's body. But there needs to be a balanced approach. And it's up to parents, not the school or others, to make sure it's done properly and with love.
Since my daughter started homeschooling, everybody seems to be getting more actively involved in exercise. Before long, I'm going to have those six-pack abs I've been working on for the past six years. And my wife will be able to get her wedding ring back on her finger. Yee Haw!!!
