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Please help me someone if you can ,my husband talks bad about me to his family this has been going on for years I have been married to this man for twenty years you would think things would be different I got married when i was very young I moved a way from my family in Tenn to my husband home town in California now my husband goes to church every week he sings in the church choir he goes up front to encourage other men an women to become christian he does every thing right around the church but at home around me in the kids he's like a monster I feel so isolated being away from home back in Tenn I think that he feel that him and his family can treat me bad because I don't have family around I mean I know that I have my kids and I thank god for them but I don't want to get them involved with this mess it would be nice to have my parents or sister and brother around for support my husband has hit me a few times also he choked me years ago I still remember it as if it was yesterday he also has cheated on me a few times since moving to California My husband has a violent temper he gets upset very quickly ,Our daughter and him don't get along at all because of the way that he treats me I'm afraid of his temper please help I need guidance on what to do I'm tired of holding my head down and feeling insecure my husband mother was also a paster and she talked down about me to her son also it kept me away from church along time because I did not trust the church anymore .