The abuse that happened in our household was lightweight compared to what Fireproof portrayed, but, it was a great movie that was still used to break and humble my spouse to tears and repentance. Even though he has changed throughout the years, there are times when he stumbles and gets impatient with me and ends up saying things to me that he regrets and tells me sorry for. I have since learned years ago, to give it to God and not respond in a way that inflames the situation. I do speak and tell him how I feel when things are calmed down. Actually, I was not expecting Fireproof to affect him as deeply as what it did. He was crying so hard that I actually felt compassion for him.