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I'm going to be a senior in high school and I know more non-Christians than Christians that go to dances who are not okay with freaking. Personally, I feel that freaking/grinding is a fornication, something that God definitely would not be pleased with and I think it's pretty self-explanatory as to why. The majority of baptized kids and and small group leaders (who are around my age) at my church are okay with freaking. I talked to my small group/mentor who went to my high school ~10 years ago about it and he said if he were in high school today he wouldn't be okay with it either. Is this one of those things that as people get older, they'll realize that it wasn't right?
I guess I'm asking because there's this girl I like who's Christian but she freaks and that's what's keeping me back from really liking her. I tried to justify it by thinking that she'll change when we get older but I still have that nagging feeling in the back of my brain that there's just something fundamentally different with our beliefs, that she's okay with something I consider a fornication.
What about you guys? Are you guys okay with freaking/grinding? I'm not trying to judge, I'm just wondering if I'm one of the few left wishing for the bygone age of dances without freaking/grinding.
I guess I'm asking because there's this girl I like who's Christian but she freaks and that's what's keeping me back from really liking her. I tried to justify it by thinking that she'll change when we get older but I still have that nagging feeling in the back of my brain that there's just something fundamentally different with our beliefs, that she's okay with something I consider a fornication.
What about you guys? Are you guys okay with freaking/grinding? I'm not trying to judge, I'm just wondering if I'm one of the few left wishing for the bygone age of dances without freaking/grinding.