Friends with a guy for 3 years

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Galatea said:
He said he'd think about talking to you? Or he'd think about trying to court?

I would think he would know by now whether he wants to court or not, but I don't presume to know what goes on in the minds of men. They are a mystery to me.
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He said he'll think about even talking to me at all now. I understand if he needs space to think, so I said I'll wait, but just until the end of the week (that way it doesn't seem as if I'll wait forever, and it gives him adequate time to consider if he really wants to end our friendship.)
 
Noelle01 said:
He said he'll think about even talking to me at all now. I understand if he needs space to think, so I said I'll wait, but just until the end of the week (that way it doesn't seem as if I'll wait forever, and it gives him adequate time to consider if he really wants to end our friendship.)
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I think that is a good compromise on both your parts. That way, you will get AN answer, and he gets time to think. I am going to pray for you.
 
Galatea said:
I think that is a good compromise on both your parts. That way, you will get AN answer, and he gets time to think. I am going to pray for you.
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Heaven knows I need it. Thank you so much for your advice. It's good to have someone out there.
 
Wild said:
1000 miles away from each other? Thats doomed from the start...
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Too bad that's entirely false. I've known people that met online, lived far away from each other and still married. One of our CC members met a woman in another Country on here and they got married. My cousin just recently married a woman he met online from another country. There are apps and sites dedicated to LDR (long distance relationships). Your statement has been proven false many times over.
 
Update:
he has agreed to have a conversation, on the condition that I am the only one to ask questions (weird condition,I know).
My question for you all is what should I ask?
 
Noelle01 said:
Update:
he has agreed to have a conversation, on the condition that I am the only one to ask questions (weird condition,I know).
My question for you all is what should I ask?
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1. whats with the weird condition
2. where do you see our relationship going


next depend on two

3. do you see us getting married
4. when are you going to want to take the step


i mean

i could come up with 100

but his answers could make most of em void
 
1. Does he care about you?
2. To what degree does he care about you? (friendship, romantic, just a person on Earth, acquaintance, someone he used to know, etc)
3. What did you do to cause the breach?
4. Where should you go from here? (no contact at all, talk as friends, talk as people courting, talk as friends growing into courting)
 
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