I will speak on my behalf. I am not single. When I came to this site I totally respected how clean it is. I liked the fact that even the very clean, not even flirting really singles section was there to contain the single people. In looking into it though, because the very funny and light sided threads are there, I found that it is just a mix of both single and not single people. It is still extremely clean. I enjoy the fact that it is a place of fellowship and not a meat market. I think the singles thread does contain threads that pertain to single people but they are still very clean. As far as meeting people goes, you do that here anyway by just getting to know people. Doesn't have to be a looking for a single male or female thing at all. I believe that when you interact with people that if God has someone for you He will bring that about as He is fully capable. And I believe from my own personal experience that when we aren't looking so hard, that is when God places the perfect mate that He intended for us in our lives. These are my own personal opinions though. Also, there are people both male and female who are aggressive and creepy. I have had to several times now, go to my other half and explain a private message because I keep everything in the open and don't hide things. These things are something I could do without. If you have a legitimate question about something or need help then great. The few I have gotten were not like that at all though. Again, my personal feelings are just that, they are not right necessarily. People will do what they do and I don't need to comment on it or make be silly about it.