You are not alone with that opinion, not by a longshot. Enough so, the Lord himself gave us this assurance, ,
11Now which one of you fathers will his son ask for a fish, and instead of a fish, he will give him a snake? 12Or he will even ask for an egg, and his father will give him a scorpion? 13So if you, despite being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him?” Luke 11
Yes, I agree with this. But we should also be alert to influences that are not of the Spirit..... at all times, not just in tongues. Many times, believers
want something so badly, they will "see" God's hand in a situation when it in reality is not God's doing, but our own.
This is seen many times in man/woman relationships.
I have told my experience with tongues a few times, perhaps once more is in order.
I was not raised in a charismatic type of church... my dad was an elder in another denomination, and we all went to worship services "every time the doors were open".... I was saved, and water baptized when I was about 10 yrs old. I did know what it was for...and what it meant.
When I was about 21 or 22, I became associated with a group of believers that were charismatic. I worshipped with them a few times, and was asked if I spoke in tongues... I said no, but it was something that interested me. They then proceded to instruct me in their beliefs, and told me that if I truly wanted tongues, the Spirit would grant it. I DID want it... I saw them all praying in tongues, and I thought that it would make my spiritual life better/deeper... we all prayed for it... about 8 or so of them surrounded me, and laid hands on me, in prayer... I was told, and believed, that all I had to do was
want it, and pray for it, and I would receive... and, nothing. They told me to, in private, simply open my mouth and start making sounds, and "it would come"... nothing.
I actually felt unworthy... that the Spirit had not given me what I asked for...
Time passed, and I kept reading about it... and I have realized that, scripturally, not every believer will experience that gift... just as every believer will not experience prophecy, or knowledge, or healing..... these are all individual gifts given to us as the Spirit sees the need.
Telling folks that ALL believers should have ALL the gifts is simply not scriptural, and it can be damaging to immature believers.