Just so funny for me, we people are always looking for something to fill the void that we have in ourselves , even though we know that only God can fill it we still cry for something, we may know Him but we never really learn how to trust Him. We are so concern to meet our partner, to be right for that person.
I wonder if God will talk to us, I think He will say… Do you think I like you to be my bride? ugh…that hurts most!
Anyway...
It’s because we are surrounded with non Christian people, and most of our time is spent with them. I never dated any Christian guys yet, but so far the non Christian guys that I’m with are responsible and nice.
The problem is, there’s nothing they can do than to bring you to bars… movie theatre most of the times…treat you to watch a game…go to this romantic place…got to the point where it bores me really. I’m still waiting for someone who will ask you out but surprisingly will bring you to the church and will tell you… alright, here we are , lets join the prayer meeting tonight!... or the fellowship meeting…that would really be so funny but that guy would really knocked me off.
But seeing you’re 14, I was in my junior high at that time, girl you still have a lot of things to discover in this silly world, don’t rush on things. I would say, I never had any experience with guys at all, till I started working.
Teen days are scary but at the same time fun for me…a lot of things we are not allowed to do, need to be home before the night came. tsk ..tsk…
My sister had her 1st bf at age 18 , she was in sophomore in college , but when my dad knew it…it’s all over.
My dad is like this ,… as long as you're living in my roof, you have to follow me…but I understand why my dad was like that, and it paid off…be someone that they can be proud of also. Enjoy your teen years without thinking of having relationships, am sure you’ll appreciate it more than worrying to find someone in your life.