Guys, will U let a girl KNOW U R A Christian in first meeting? I sure hope so. When?

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How soon into a first MEETING (not date), GUYS, do you let girl KNOW u r a Christian?

  • 1 minute in, just after introductions

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • 5 minutes, after small talk, u mention church attend

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • 20 minutes u say something

    Votes: 4 30.8%

  • Right at the end of the date, mentioning u r christian

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Never on the first date

    Votes: 1 7.7%
  • Total voters
    13
Liz01 said:
Please breath Green!!! hahaha i dont want that you faint

I see your point and i think its very cool that you want to lead, i guess is harder for you guys than for us
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Lizzietheone, you are very :cool:

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Ok, jrsf49erinCanada :D , I understand that you never would go out with a non-christian on a date, I won't either because.... IF I like the girl I will preface our FIRST MEETING conversation with figuring out if she is a christian, that should be paramount importance, I think.

Most guys on here think that too, but go ahead and vote 'never' if that is how you really would do it. I just would NEVER let her go withoit knowing I was a Christian . She, at that point should say, 'me too,' is how I see it.

And, we can talk hypothetically all day long , what if guy is lying about being christisn, or, what if girl is lying , for that matter.

Bottom line: we must have faith after that knowledge that God will protect us and get us through. In most cases, I doubt guy lies about something like that. Not that it is necessary but I would then ask her before this chance meeting is officially over if she wants to go to church.
 
Descyple said:
I would indirectly mention my faith in God during a first encounter with a woman in this way:

"There must be a God, because Evolution has neither the power nor the capacity to form a creature as beautiful as the one that stands before me!"
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hahahahaha...that is so smooth!!!
 
Who just said 'never' for opening up to girl on a chance meeting in library, or, whetever you JUST SUDDENLY MEET, that they are a christian.

For over three weeks and several votes in my poll, NO ONE said 'never.'

So.....

PM me, unless you want to talk it out here, the Lord leads, but I would pm me, or, like my post #38 says, I will take you on like Donkey Kong :D
 
I am thinking I am treating this thread as more of if I randomly encounter any human being male or female, because I am going to talk to them the same amount of time regardless of gender, and not mentioning Christianity upon these random encounters is ok by me. I am sure if the talk went over a certain time or certain things came up then that would come out, but I do not have a preconceived agenda to bring up Christ in every conversation of meeting someone, if it is the Lord's will He will bring that out through me and speak for Himself.
 
I let every girl I ever date/meet know that I'm a Christian, but not JUST a Christian, but a very SPRITUAL Christian. See, there's a HUGE difference if you ask me, because everyone under the sun claims to be a Christian, and none of them actually are. They sure don't act like it. I actually study it in my free time. I pay attention to it. I learn more than the core concepts. I learn my Bible verses. Most people don't, at least not the large majority of claimed Christians, so it isn't so much that you tell anyone that you are, but more so that you tell them that you are a REAL one.

Oh, and it happens sometime after they first meet me, but who actually looks at the time limit? That's just dumb. Things come up naturally.
 
JerryRice said:
I am thinking I am treating this thread as more of if I randomly encounter any human being male or female, because I am going to talk to them the same amount of time regardless of gender, and not mentioning Christianity upon these random encounters is ok by me. I am sure if the talk went over a certain time or certain things came up then that would come out, but I do not have a preconceived agenda to bring up Christ in every conversation of meeting someone, if it is the Lord's will He will bring that out through me and speak for Himself.
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You're treating the thread wrong, jer , now, back off or im gonna have to call the police :D
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Seriously, Christ bro, this thread is not about just a random meeting with a male or female stranger, its about going to your grocery store and seeing a girl that makes your brain start going and going . And going, and, going..... You are immediately attracted to her and no more perfect place to place a little plate of convo in the situation as the lady in front of you has about 400 items to check and that doesn't even include the lady in front of her with 500 items :D

So, you, my friend have time to get to know the lady !

Probably 10-15 minutes in this particular scenario. So, as you say something like , 'I bet your happy I only have 25 items.'

She looks at your quarter full cart of Banquet tv dinners and says, 'you like the bachelor life i see.'

You both laugh and, wham, bam, thank you, God (try to thank Him in the midst of this chance lucky encounter seeing the girl of your dreams) , and so how long after this tidbit into the convo do you say SOMETHING God-related, Jer ?

Am I being more clear now? If not, please pardon our 'gap,' I defer all communication snafus to my green brains :D
 
:P gotcha, that helps a little, i guess i don't come across these situations or choose not to.. however if i did, i guess I can vote now and answer appropriately! i think back a few years ago when i got a new hair dresser, she was my age and you always chat with hairdressers or they do with you, and i remember talking about church so i guess i can't vote never. i guess since full time work started and energy levels depleted i haven't had many opportunities to get to know new girls, only talk to girls i already knew. but thanks for the clarity.

so i need to get out more.. and i am cause i am talking a leave off work to do just that :P wooo
 
JerryRice said:
:P gotcha, that helps a little, i guess i don't come across these situations or choose not to.. however if i did, i guess I can vote now and answer appropriately! i think back a few years ago when i got a new hair dresser, she was my age and you always chat with hairdressers or they do with you, and i remember talking about church so i guess i can't vote never. i guess since full time work started and energy levels depleted i haven't had many opportunities to get to know new girls, only talk to girls i already knew. but thanks for the clarity.

so i need to get out more.. and i am cause i am talking a leave off work to do just that :P wooo
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Cool, you would the girl of God in some way. Amen !
Yeah, 'leave' from work, coooo. Get out there, dude, and, find a conversation. Ask the Lord, if in His will, and, you are ready He sees, you will. :)

You look like a strapping hsndsome young man too, and, you got a job, jer, which a lot don't these days (don't ever give up on God doing things for you, He will find what you need,work, whatever, peeps :) ) .

God bless you, Christ bro, and, yes, DON'T go to.the barbershop and DON'T go back to.your óle hairdresser next time, go to somewhere new girls reside. The salon ! :)

Oh, and, see if you can't get stillWater or robo or someone to change your 'never' vote for poll, your skewing the results :D
 
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I learned from past mistake to tell the girl right away im a Christian n tell her my beliefs. So from now on the girl will know right away as soon as we meet so she knows right away.if she doesn't except me excepting Christ then I CAnt except her as my girlfriend there is no way.thats why its good to date a girl in the church rather than a girl who doesn't have ur belief s.
 
JerryRice said:
Don't worry it wasn't me that voted never, you still will have to find that 'culprit'.
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God bless you, jer , in your free week from work. Find some fun relaxing things to do . The Lord leads.

Oh , 'never,' not you, then I guess I will say this again...

If you said 'never,' for your vote in my poll , please come on here and explain yourself. I promise I will be green and nice ;)

PM to me is fine too, however you feel led. The Lord leads.


theBibleisawsome said:
I learned from past mistake to tell the girl right away im a Christian n tell her my beliefs. So from now on the girl will know right away as soon as we meet so she knows right away.if she doesn't except me excepting Christ then I CAnt except her as my girlfriend there is no way.thats why its good to date a girl in the church rather than a girl who doesn't have ur belief ps.
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:).
 
Descyple said:
I would indirectly mention my faith in God during a first encounter with a woman in this way:

"There must be a God, because Evolution has neither the power nor the capacity to form a creature as beautiful as the one that stands before me!"[/QUOT

In the first meeting? I think I'm developing a headache!
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Descyple said:
I would indirectly mention my faith in God during a first encounter with a woman in this way:

"There must be a God, because Evolution has neither the power nor the capacity to form a creature as beautiful as the one that stands before me!"
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In the first meeting? I think I'm developing a headache!
 
Tatz said:
In the first meeting? I think I'm developing a headache!
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ThatTatz, i think that descypler says a great line, of God and humor, it shows he's funny and serious about his Redeemer and Saviour. :)


Any other 'evolutionary' liners for us, Descipler :D
 
I think you should date someone when that person really means something to you and you feel your future together has potential. You care about that person, not just the idea of dating
 
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