Hai! I’m Reid

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Hello! As the title says, I am Reid. I’m a new member but not new to believing in Christ. I’m a 21y.o. transman (please no hate; We all struggle with one sin or another!) and am currently trying to re-seek out a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. I’ve been good at reading a bit of the bible everyday and praying.

I would love to make some female Christian friends and hopefully figure out how to deal with my identity. Anyways, feel free to DM! Thanks!😊
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Hi TransGUYReseekingChrist I'm so glad the Lord led you to CC, welcome! You are right when you say we're all dealing with temptations/sins and to recognize them as WRONG is the first step. God made you a male and any ideas/deceits in your mind telling you different is NOT of God. This type of sin, as any other, of course can be overcome with determination to be right in God's eyes. Heaven is real and so is Hell and spoiler alert...there's no gays/trans etc in Heaven. These are perversions. I had my own demons to overcome as we all do. Please know many here will be glad to help and encourage you in any way you reach out. God, bless & keep this young MAN Reid in your will, IJNA🙏🙌
 
Hi TransGUYReseekingChrist I'm so glad the Lord led you to CC, welcome! You are right when you say we're all dealing with temptations/sins and to recognize them as WRONG is the first step. God made you a male and any ideas/deceits in your mind telling you different is NOT of God. This type of sin, as any other, of course can be overcome with determination to be right in God's eyes. Heaven is real and so is Hell and spoiler alert...there's no gays/trans etc in Heaven. These are perversions. I had my own demons to overcome as we all do. Please know many here will be glad to help and encourage you in any way you reach out. God, bless & keep this young MAN Reid in your will, IJNA🙏🙌
While I appreciate all your words I do want to clarify I’m female at birth! So my perversion is wanting to be male but alas I am female. Thank you sm for your prayers
 
Oh sorry, here's a redo🙏😊

Hi TransGuyReseekingChrist I'm so glad the Lord led you to CC, welcome! You are right when you say we're all dealing with temptations/sins and to recognize them as WRONG is the first step. God made you a female and any ideas/deceits in your mind telling you different is NOT of God. This type of sin, as any other, of course can be overcome with determination to be right in God's eyes. Heaven is real and so is Hell and spoiler alert...there's no gays/trans etc in Heaven. These are perversions. I had my own demons to overcome as we all do. Please know many here will be glad to help and encourage you in any way you reach out. God, bless & keep this young WOMAN Reid in your will, IJNA🙏🙌

Ok I think I got it right that time, lol, and I pray many gals here reach out to you with truth and love. Time is valuable and again may God help you (and us all) overcome all deceitful thoughts, IJNA🙏💕
 
Oh sorry, here's a redo🙏😊

Hi TransGuyReseekingChrist I'm so glad the Lord led you to CC, welcome! You are right when you say we're all dealing with temptations/sins and to recognize them as WRONG is the first step. God made you a female and any ideas/deceits in your mind telling you different is NOT of God. This type of sin, as any other, of course can be overcome with determination to be right in God's eyes. Heaven is real and so is Hell and spoiler alert...there's no gays/trans etc in Heaven. These are perversions. I had my own demons to overcome as we all do. Please know many here will be glad to help and encourage you in any way you reach out. God, bless & keep this young WOMAN Reid in your will, IJNA🙏🙌

Ok I think I got it right that time, lol, and I pray many gals here reach out to you with truth and love. Time is valuable and again may God help you (and us all) overcome all deceitful thoughts, IJNA🙏💕
Amen! ☦️📿 Thank you so much. I appreciate you taking the time to fix it and pray for me, that means a lot! Praying for you and myself that God delivers us from any and all temptations and we may walk with the Lord and grow stronger in our faith!
 
Hello! As the title says, I am Reid. I’m a new member but not new to believing in Christ. I’m a 21y.o. transman (please no hate; We all struggle with one sin or another!) and am currently trying to re-seek out a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. I’ve been good at reading a bit of the bible everyday and praying.

I would love to make some female Christian friends and hopefully figure out how to deal with my identity. Anyways, feel free to DM! Thanks!😊
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Hello! As the title says, I am Reid. I’m a new member but not new to believing in Christ. I’m a 21y.o. transman (please no hate; We all struggle with one sin or another!) and am currently trying to re-seek out a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. I’ve been good at reading a bit of the bible everyday and praying.

I would love to make some female Christian friends and hopefully figure out how to deal with my identity. Anyways, feel free to DM! Thanks!
Glad you're here. May God bless you and help you find peace.
 
Hello! As the title says, I am Reid. I’m a new member but not new to believing in Christ. I’m a 21y.o. transman (please no hate; We all struggle with one sin or another!) and am currently trying to re-seek out a relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ. I’ve been good at reading a bit of the bible everyday and praying.

I would love to make some female Christian friends and hopefully figure out how to deal with my identity. Anyways, feel free to DM! Thanks!😊
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Hi Reid, sounds like you and I have something in common. Reseeking Christ is something i fulfilled 38 years ago.

Although reading His word and going to church can be apart of that it was one specific thing that made the difference. It's actually what it says in the Vines Greek dictionary for the definition of what Christian faith is, "a personal surrender to Him and a life inspired by such surrender. "

I wanted to say this to you because if I'm reading you right, you've already done that atleast once in your life when you made a personal surrender to another gender, and lived a life inspired by such surrender.

It's exactly the same as a surrender to Him.

You do everything to make that surrender as genuine as possible .

I hope this old guy didn't disrespect you in some way I'm not aware of. Your what Christianity calls " a called out one". You've been called out by the Father, so now He's waiting for your correct, genuine response, "a daily ( all day long if necessary) personal surrender to Him and a life inspired by such surrenderReid!


Im excited for you reid, buckle up your seatbelt.
 
Genesis 1:27
New International Version
27 So God created mankind in his own image,
in the image of God he created them;
male and female he created them.

Matthew 4:1-11
New International Version
Then Jesus was led by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. 2 After fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. 3 The tempter came to him and said, “If you are the Son of God, tell these stones to become bread.”
4 Jesus answered, “It is written: ‘Man shall not live on bread alone, but on every word that comes from the mouth of God.’”
5 Then the devil took him to the holy city and had him stand on the highest point of the temple. 6 “If you are the Son of God,” he said, “throw yourself down. For it is written:
“‘He will command his angels concerning you,
and they will lift you up in their hands,
so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.’”
7 Jesus answered him, “It is also written: ‘Do not put the Lord your God to the test.’”
8 Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their splendor. 9 “All this I will give you,” he said, “if you will bow down and worship me.”
10 Jesus said to him, “Away from me, Satan! For it is written: ‘Worship the Lord your God, and serve him only.’”
11 Then the devil left him, and angels came and attended him.

2 Timothy 3:16-17
New International Version
16 All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, 17 so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.
 
Thank you! Yes I read these first two recently while studying. I need to read Timothy soon.
Romans 1:21–27 is most helpful to me at the moment with my struggle!
It is a miracle that you realize the struggle and working on it. Read out the scripture loud, pray Holy spirit continue working in you.
Fill your time with pure and holy activities, busy with God, no time for ungodly stuff.

God be with you. One day you will look back and say, God carry me through, I only enjoy Holy activities, the enemy has no hold of my interest at all.