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I found a facebook conversation between my husband and a girl half his age in which the girl mentioned that "She miss his lovemaking" and a whole lot of cybersexual conversations mostly from him to the girl. The messages were at least a year old. I suspected this girl about two years ago, although he kept on denying that anything was going on. He told me he is trying to help her and that she is a friends daughter. My husband is still denying the affair(s) and claims that someone stole his facebook identity and had those conversations. He is not apologetic in his conversations about it. He has stopped being romantic with me because I called the girl and told her not to call/email him again. Our Pastor has spoken with us on two occassions, and nothing seems to be improving. We have four children, the oldest being 11 years old. I am sad, and not happy at all. I need some directions. Thanks.