Listen to a song by the Katinas: You're All I Need. Remember 'you're' = God . I say that because song does not mention Christ in it, but Kats are a christian group.
Jars of Clay: I need you, I need you, I need you.
My best advice so far: put Christ into every song.
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God is crying out to you now, not a girl. Step around the past path you've been on and I pray for your anxiety of separation to a girl to switch to a separation anxiety from God first being in your life. The Lord leads us all the time , even non-Christians have the grace and mercy of God in their lives(they just don't see it).
May the power of God overwhelm your thoughts now, DPeters.
---hey, ladies, and, gentleman, offer good spirit (and spiritual) to this man , let him know that God loves him and will holly-jolly beautifully work this consternation time of DPeters life out if he depends on Him.
Thanks, God bless.