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May 31, 2019
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What does this mean and how should I apply it?

“Your not stuck. Your just commited to certain behaviors because they helped you in the past. Now those behaviors have become more harmful than helpful. The reason you can’t move forward is because you keep applying an order formula to a new level of your life. Change the formula to get a different result.
 

Subhumanoidal

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Not really a prayer request, but...

If a child is raised in a family where they feel they are often ignored or overlooked they may develop a habit of manipulation to get the attention or to feel heard.
Now this child is an adult and married to someone that listens to them and give them that attention. If they continue the manipulation, as they did as a child, this can actually Cause problems because there is no longer a need for the manipulation, so the manipulation is actually a problem.
This is what it means. Something may have worked under certain circumstances, but with new circumstances it actually can be damaging. So learning new habits and behaviors is vital to prevent new problems.
 

Leastamongmany

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Jun 2, 2019
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What does this mean and how should I apply it?

“Your not stuck. Your just commited to certain behaviors because they helped you in the past. Now those behaviors have become more harmful than helpful. The reason you can’t move forward is because you keep applying an order formula to a new level of your life. Change the formula to get a different result.
how old are you? I have seen multiple threads from you sometimes relating to the same things! You can also post in prayer request forum or on your status! I am praying for your deliverance in healing. I'm also praying that you will simply " trust " God,our creator. May you be enlightened and comforted in His word!🙏🙏🙏
 

EmilyFoster

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Hello, Annaizabel. I’m praying for God’s wisdom and help in the situation you are facing. Grace and peace to you.