Here we are, DATING season, a.k.a. holidays, WHAT are you REALLY saying to her/him?

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IF you really like someone, what kind of body language/verbal language/etc. should YOU be showing the one YOU LIKE when they are talking to you about something?

Just saying 'uh-huh,' and 'sure,' or REALLY PAYING ATTENTION.

How does one REALLY pay attention to what she's/he's saying?????

This can be for someone in a serious relationship or not so serious, like just met.

What kinds of things??? Go ! :)
 
Great question.

Say im dating a guy and he's over my house just talking and talking and talking, to let him know im really listning i'll tell him to start talking louder because im gonna go upstairs get in my bed, close my eyes and really visualize what he's saying, and when hes done talking if theres a long silence its because im processing everything hes said and to come back in 8 to 10 hours.
 
Don't know too much on what I SHOULD be saying...I let my swag do the talking
 
I'm still stuck on what a "man grunt" is... I think I'm just going to go for " lean not onto your own understanding Michelle" and do whatever the guy likes.. just overlook he likes to grunt .. accept they're cavemen that have been terribly modernized.... I think I'm going to put camo toilet paper in the bathroom when the time comes .. find the biggest piece of meat on a bone To cook.. And when its ready simply say... "Sickum big fella!" I really have no idea ... but I'm wearing heals whatever I do ... entirely to much man stuff for me , it's like being in cooty ville if you want the gods honest truth... but if he wants to chew on a bone and beat His chest... so be it .. as long as he can put bubble bath in the bath tub and run the water, we will get along just fine :) I'm planning ahead for when He comes along... he's not here yet... But you can bet I'm taking notes!
 
I'm asking Santa for a boyfriend this year! Christmas morning; better be one under the tree! :p
 

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I'm asking Santa for a boyfriend this year! Christmas morning; better be one under the tree! :p

AFTER THAT DISINTERESTED THREAD I read, i'd say only black, chalky sedimentary rock will be under your tree :D JK. Was funny thread, a lot more Truth than any guy will ever care you to know :)


Now, did you see how a guy there just talked to a girl (no, not me, 'green' :D ) ?

THIS is simply how you talk to a girl, you ACT interested ! You connect your thoughts DIRECTLY with their thoughts.

You don't jabberwocky off on them when they ask a question, becoming narcisstic and teling them your life, UNLESS her body language is a stare Medusa would be proud of. In other words....


IF she is interested in YOU be interested back, and, in other words, if what you do interests her YOU SHOW IMMEDIATE interest back, with INTEREST, pay her back in full, LOL. LOL, maybe I missed something but there were no 'interested,' 'disinterested,' threads on page 1 this morning when I did this thread (that I saw, anyway) , NOW we have like, 3 Or 4, mine (do I sound narcisstic, miladies :) ) is not with 'interested' or, similar word in title , like, umm, 'uninterested,' Or, well, hmm, now that YOU'RE interested in this thread, and, others 'interesting' threads, put the things into practice....

IF you really like a girl, shoot back a comment, immediately, directly to her, DON'T play dumb here, nitmydudes, that's NOT smart. Girls, mydudes, will go from liking you to disinterested quicker than you can say 'she WAS so into me,' IF they see a chemistry charge ignite, burn, but then you don't respond to their talking to you. WHEN you are really interested !

Granted, the Lord leads, and, we are to follow but God wants you to MOVE with interest, not DISinterested at His leading, that dis's FAITH , and,vGod wants you to USE the measure of FAITH HE GAVE YOU ! So, who cares IF you look dumb and not smart, BE YOURSELF, and, IF you like a girl, shoot back at her IMMEDIATELY when she let's off a chuckle , tell her she laughs like 'Lucille Ball,' but don't forget to tell her she is Funnier than 'Lucy.!'

ACT INTERESTED ! Or, like Nods said, you will become boring really quick IF you THINK she is interested in youR jabberwocking about how cool it is to play 'Halo 3,' when she's showing NO signs of liking video games !!! So, IF YOU REALLY ARE INTERESTED , act interested, and, GET to a topic she's interested in !!

You only THINK you need to talk all the time about vids, you WILL see, IF you quit your agenda and GET interested in hers which CAN be yours too IF the Lord leads you, through YOUR FAITH, it COULD BE the start of a beautiful relationship instead of her saying, 'Chewbacca, I LOVE your talking, go outside my door and talk louder and louder and I will close the door the 3rd time you mention Halo3 is the grubbingest game on the planet, k?'

Guy: oh, cool (starts talking, louder, and, louder, thinking he's made a connection)

Slam!

You were NOT interested!!!!

Green, but I was. I REALLY liked her!!!

Then, try again, another girl, LEARN, LEARN, LEARN, what you are doing is NOT working!!
You NEED to pray first, good God guy, but you need to QUIT trying to say/do things that INTEREST you and not her. It's ALL about YOU becoming interesting to her, you do that by letting her know , I a way she finds interesting, that YOU ARE INTERESTED :)
 
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he looks a lil bit too old for you. :D

ask for someone who looks a lil bit younger.

hahaha really? I figured he's around the 30 mark lol. Well he's okay looking, but of course, no match compared to Zao's ego :rolleyes:
 
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He looks kind of like uncle jesse and steve carrell (I'm a fan of both), with really really big hands.
 
Mr. Green, don't jabberwocky off to them? But...but...

"Twas brillig and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe. All mimsy were the borrogoves and the mome wraths outgrabe..."

I always jabberwocky off to the people I like! ;)
 
Mr. Green, don't jabberwocky off to them? But...but...

"Twas brillig and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe. All mimsy were the borrogoves and the mome wraths outgrabe..."

I always jabberwocky off to the people I like! ;)
See, guys, you tell her at this above said, 'That line should have been in Lord of The Rings,' Or, 'wow, I didn't know you could quote Golem so well (The Hobbit).

You also, just adding, don't need to be THIS creative (am I being narcisstic, again, miladies ? :) ) talking back to their 'jabberwocky,' BUT, and, it's a big 'but,' interject in on them with a 'REALLY! you are so funny!!) I mean, GIVE that girl YOU are interested in YOUR full attention THROUGHOUT te conversation.

Just SHOW interest!! Simple. YOU like a girl, SHOW INTEREST, God will DO the rest, He does it all for us as we have FAITH and ARE interested in who He puts in front of us.

So, if God's telling you that your READY for an 'interesting' next phase of your life, ask Him how you can BECOME INTERESTED in a girl that you like!! He will tell you. Always so perfect, too, His plans, YOU follow, will be perfect for you ! :)
How interested is God in you, sparrow? How many hairs do you have on your head ;)

God knows you better than you know you. Have FAITH in a girl he has PRESENTED to you? She is, quite possibly, the Lord leads, but she is more interested in you than you THINK, I just bet, because, you don't kjow jack, sparrow, when it comes to God's perfectly placed 'girliwag' (I was going to say 'wench' but figured miladies wouldn't be quite INTERESTED in hearing that :) ) in front of you :)
 
Hehe good advice, Mr. Green. :) and The Jabberwocky is a poem by Lewis Carrol. (Sp?) It's much longer than that and quite fascinating, actually. :D