go to 12stepme.org. sign up and start chatting with them. find a sponsor and do the steps, then start sponsoring others. learn how to give it all to him and let him deal with this. you can not do it on your own. e me if you need to. Dear God, please work in che's heart and to help overcome this problem. please guide che to your servants at this organization who are working and serving you, and give them the wisdom to show che how to manage this problem. In your name i pray, amen.