Oh well. Here is my response from Bible Discussion.
This is going to be good. I guess I agree with you, if...
Ephesians 5, verse 23, says "For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior." To expect submission from their wives, men must exhibit the qualities of Christ; love, gentleness, forgiveness, strength and compassion. Only if men keep up their end of the biblical bargain, can they expect their wives to keep up theirs.
Have at it.